Apologies for posting so late, this has been on my mind.
My granddaughter is 14. I recently got informed by her mum (my daughter) that my GD has a new boyfriend, whom just so happens to be four years older than her, 18. According to my daughter, this is my GD's first boyfriend.
The problem I have with this is that they're at different stages of their lives, and I don't think it would work out. I don't see what an 18 year old would want from a 14 year old and struggle to see how he could genuinely be in love with her. Don't get me wrong my GD is a lovely girl however I'm not sure of the intentions of my GD's boyfriend, and obviously don't want my GD to get hurt.
AIBU to feel that a relationship between a 14yo and 18yo isn't appropriate?