Not sure how you can persuade your husband to be sociable. You on the other hand want to get out and about and the only way is to force yourself to join things. I'm widowed and moved/downsized a year ago 500 miles away from my old life to be nearer family. I joined the local choir, the W.I., a weekly art group, volunteer in a hospice charity shop, and have involved myself with the local Church, and help at the local school. With a lady I met at the art group I'm setting up another group....so anything is possible! I have no real 'friends' yet but know lots of people. It'll take time, but go for it. Good luck!
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages
Kate Garroway-Care at home costs