This may seem trivial but it has really upset me. My husband was ill about 2 years ago and since then will do nothing but sit down and watch tv. He won't come out with me and doesn't really interact with the rest of the family. I do everything for him even taking his meals to him in front of tv as he wont sit to the table (being 'too poorly').
I have been away for a few days ( we have 2 adult sons who live with us so could keep an eye on him) and he decided to shampoo our new carpets which have left them damp and dull and murky looking, of course the stain guard is now destroyed as is the stain warranty! He rarely moves so why did he do it? and how if he is too poorly to even dust or help (I still work part time) he is actually better now but enjoys being an invalid. He is now not talking to me because I said he knew not to do it. AIBU to be upset.
He wants to be in control - daughter's labour
I'm being annoying - grandchild
He's a sociopath - daughter's partner