Lilylavender your outfit sounds wonderful. Wear it and enjoy the day. Also any photographs will only (normally) show the front, so don't worry about the split. I will also be a MOG in a couple of months and have bought a sleeveless dress as it will be very hot where we live. I have also bought a silk shawl to wear to cover the upper arm area as my upper arms aren't what they used to be!! (actually the rest of me isn't what it used to be either.) Having had three daughters marry I think this will be the most relaxed, as I have learnt that the eyes will be on the bride and groom not the guests. Have a fabulous time.