I am not a fan of the royal family or the queen. However, I do have some sympathy for her at the moment. Any parent would find the current situation to be distressing.
However, I have more sympathy for ordinary people who have the normal anxieties of paying the mortgage/rent, transport, energy bills, council tax, phone, etc, plus inadequate support for child or elder care. Difficulties with young people are often created or exacerbated by a lack of time to spend with children and a lack of finances to create emotional and material security - something which the royal family does not have to contend with.