Bbarb ….He doesn't get it does he?
I'm so sorry you're going through such a bad time.
Please think of yourself. Its not being selfish to consider all the difficulties you are under.
Is there anything you could or would like to do socially?
If there is, tell him you'd rather do such and such because it's more to your liking and your body can cope with it.
If there is nobody you want to see and nothing you want to do, then don't.
Please don't push yourself. Your health and recovery comes first.
If you came to harm (slipping, sitting badly, just about anything) whilst going out just because he wants to, you would never forgive yourself for putting yourself in harms way.
He clearly doesn't understand the ramifications of what has happened to you, therefore IMV its reckless of him to make decisions on your behalf.
I wouldn't ever invite people my husband didn't like out, nor would I expect him to do anything he didn't feel capable of.
Show your husband this thread.
Good luck