I worked in a busy office, and one colleague left abruptly - to put it mildly. She just upped and stormed out. We were in a fix, and I was asked to help out, which I willingly did for quite a while, putting myself under stress as a family member was in hospital. A kind colleague took me to one side and said that I had done my share, and it wasn't MY responsiblilty to cover for absences in the office. It was a light bulb moment - I went to see the manager and said was he making any effort to get a replacement? No, he wasn't! I said that I wasn't going to continue with the impossible workload further than the end of the week - and hey presto, a replacement arrived from a temp agency on Thursday. The point I am trying to make here is that we perhaps all feel a duty, a 'Protestant work ethic' but in truth it is not up to you to cover for colleagues more than if someone goes home ill and is likely to be back in a couple of days.