but after all the bad things I've heard about how muslim men treat young white women and the horror stories about them running away with womens children. Are you talking about Pakistan or the UK? What are the sources for these rumours? Are they good reliable trusted sources or whispers that go around?
Thousands and thousands of families of Pakistani heritage travel between the UK and Pakistan every year and travel back. families still intact. They have wonderful holidays with their families who are delighted to see them.
Look at it from the otherside. If you were Pakistani would you want your family coming to Britain? Gangs of youths roam our city streets, stabbing and killing people whether they know them or not. In some towns, gangs of men who share their ethnicity, are going around grabbing young girls and raping them and holding them in bondage. Many of our towns are ruled by drug gangs who again kidnap and force children to live in terrible conditions and act as couriers and runners for drugs. - I exagerate of course, but rumours like this feed on themselves.
norahbennette you are living in a country every bit as lawless and violent as Pakistan, if you believe everything these who know nothing about it tell you. Exactly the same applies to Pakistan. No, the country is not totally violence free, but what country is. If your daughter follows local customs for dress, she will not attact undue attention and as for young Pakistani/ British female children being kidnapped. List some specific cases where girls as young 10 and 7 have been kidnapped. Or is all just racist rumour?
These children, assuming your daughter and her husband have British passports, are British citizens and the idea that children like this could be kidnapped and it not hit the headlines is silly.
Unless you have very specific evidence that your SiL is planning to sell the children into slavery, in which case you should go to the police, your post sounds out and out racist, or if not you sound very credulous, prepared to believe anything anyone tells you about Pakistan and Pakistanis.
Life must be very difficult for your daughter, happily married and with 3 children to have a mother who is ignorant and racist and has no trust in her own daughter and presumably refuses to take her SiL into her home and heart because he is a foreigner and coloured. How do I know that? My daughter married a Pakistani fellow last year, she already had 2 children (girls) with him and is now pregnant with the 3rd Anyone else would have described him as ^ my SiL^