Love and life in lock down without booz?

Life in Lockdown without ?

Doesn't bear thinking about

Seriously though, it's your life - yours to take care of. This could be a good time to cut down but if you don't want to and it's not affecting you in any way then he is being hypocritical wanting you to do something he isn't!

If your four glasses is spread over a few hours and you are eating normally and drinking plenty of water then just tell him to change his attitude because you are not his former partner and you don't want to live under that kind of control.

Just make sure you stick to what you are used to and don't give him cause criticise you further.

A bottle of wine per night is an unhealthy limit. Sorry this is possibly not what you want to hear but I’m being honest with you.

If it is causing problems in your relationship and as you say, you can’t live without a glass of something. It’s time to address your lifestyle.

Look on this as a good time to cut down on your alcohol consumption? its a Win win situation. You'll come out of the lockdown healthier and with a better relationship.

Not sure what you expect people to say. You drink too much. He is probably drinking too much as well. Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

Have a close-up hard look at yourself and decide how you want your life to proceed. For me, anyone who moves in with a "boyfriend" after a few weeks is clearly not thinking right.

Hmmm - I too think it is far too much to be drinking. Maybe he is right and his comments could help you to get this under control.

As someone who cannot drink alcohol, I really do have to assure you that life without it can be just fine.

Guidelines for drinking wine - fourteen units per week. Considering that an average glass of wine equals about 2 units, that gives you one glass of wine per day.
A bottle of wine per night is far too much!
You say you can't imagine life without a drink of something, perhaps you should give it a try.

Sounds as if it’s not working for him any more and he’s nitpicking rather than being man enough to just tell you outright.

Undermining you is a form of abuse and a valid reason for moving out presuming you have somewhere to go.

Quick fire relationships sometimes work out but often it’s the niggly little things that cause eruption and you only get to know what these are over time.. I don’t think reasoning is going to get you anywhere unfortunately.

A bottle a day? I’d never been sober if I drank that much and it won’t do your body much good in fighting off CV, should you catch it.

Why don’t you just go home if you’re not getting on well with your partner? Moving house is permitted, if necessary, as I understand it and it could be argued that you need to get out of a bad relationship.

You drink to excess no matter what you think.

Oh dear; maybe hangups from previous relationships should have been aired before you moved in. Maybe going home is something to think about.

of not off!

You are in denial if you think a bottle off wine a day isn’t too much. You don’t get drunk because your body is used to it.

Is it to far to go home? Otherwise this lockdown might become fractious.