Stepdaughters wedding

They are her step brothers, my sons from a previous marriage i have been married to my husband 5yrs they are 9 and 15, we get on well, very well, i think i contact her more than hrr dad does, its a female thing, i just wonder what will happen if husband does ask and they're not invited? I get its their choice who to invite and they got a buget and numbers to work with but i jist didnt think they wouldnt be invited, the wedding has been planning for 2 yrs, she has kept it very close to her chest, but i didnt mind i thought be a lovely surprise on day, i jist feel disheartened by it, either way i feel itll cause upset x

We had a similar situation years ago when Sister-in-law married, DS1(mine) was away at college, when the invitations went out just DS2(mine) and DD were invited.
I was very hurt as we were paying for most of the wedding even her dress.
I said nothing as they are a very touchy family, but lo and behold, at the wedding I was constantly being asked where he was.
Said' you did not invite him' to be told sorry we must have forgotten to put his name on the invite.
Perhaps you could find a way to bring up the subject quietly ????

Do your sons want to fo to this wedding?
How old are the sons?
How is the relationship between your stepdaughter and her (half) brothers?
How long have you and her dad being married?
How is your relationship with her?

Yes I agree let her Dad deal with this. Very difficult situation to be in I dont envy you. Hope it gets sorted so your sons can attend with you.

yes I agree - good advice from Tanith

Good advice from tanith

I think your husband should clarify with his daughter if her step brothers are invited or not. I think you should stay right out of it to save a rift developing. Let your husband deal with it.