Daftbag1 Thu 10-Sep-20 09:05:42
When the children were at home, clearing up took over my life, and the waft of bleach followed me everywhere. After they left home the house was relatively easy to keep clean and tidy, then I became ill. My husband is messy, and I've joined him. I do try to keep on top of it, but if I'm honest it's grubby and as my husband doesn't see it, I don't / can't really keep it the way I want to.
I wish someone would come and wave a wand and leave me with a timetable to follow to keep on top of it all, I don't seem to be able to, but it costs money, money that we don't have.