My babies were bottle fed for reasons I won't go into on here, but rest assured I was not coerced in any way.
I was disappointed, but pleased they were alive, but will never forget the first NCT party I was at after the birth of my first, when I overheard the class facilitator say that if her baby died of a cot death, at least she would know that it wasn't her fault, as she had breastfed him.
Admittedly my hormones were all over the place, but I was devastated. I loved my baby as much as any mother can, and the thought that if anything happened to her would be considered my fault for not being able to breastfeed was appalling to me. I never felt the same again about NCT, and have always defended women who bottle feed, as how they feed their babies is none of anyone else's business.
Incidentally, my babies survived the bottle feeding, and are happy and healthy adults. FACT.