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Mums feeding their babies but not holding the baby in their arms !

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Rosarie Sun 04-Oct-20 18:40:25

AIBU when I get angry seeing Mums feeding babies while the baby is in a buggy /pram ! I do realise this is sometimes necessary because of circumstances , but it is very common I am prompted to write because of a photograph in today’s Sunday’s Times ! The poor baby does not know what to do with its hands , a baby is programmed to knead the Mums breast’s if breast feeding and will do this if being bottle fed ! Also there is no eye contact , that is surely wrong ! I would like to include the photograph but I do ot know how to !

Summerlove Wed 07-Oct-20 23:12:41

trustgone4sure

No Lucca,that`s my opinion.
Why would you NOT pick up the baby and hold the baby close ?.
I loved nothing more than my sons looking up at me and smiling.PRICELESS.

Because sometimes a mum is just touched out? Bad back? Need a break?

Amy number of reasons.

None of which means she loves her child less than those who hold them the whole time.

Hithere Wed 07-Oct-20 23:23:45

Some babies dont like to be held, others need to be held all the time.

Babies are people with their own personalities

MissAdventure Wed 07-Oct-20 23:40:38

My oldest grandson didn't like being held.
It was frightening, trying to give him a cuddle, as he would wriggle and squirm and fight to get away.