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AIBU about other peoples visitors

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Ilovecheese Sun 18-Oct-20 16:30:22

tanith is right, Flakesdayout but you are not alone. A friend of mine seems to have several different "bubbles". I feel a bit peeved, I know I am lucky, I don't live alone, but we havn't seen either of our families for months.
So many people going against the advice, sometimes I feel like I am in the wrong for sticking with the guidance. We are also in Tier 2 and may possibly go into Tier 3.

tanith Sun 18-Oct-20 16:16:22

It does no good to get het up over others behaviour, do what you have to do everyone has to make their own mind up to the risk they are prepared with their own health.
You aren’t unreasonable but it does you no good to worry what others are doing.

Flakesdayout Sun 18-Oct-20 16:10:03

I was having a good day then saw that my neighbour has yet another person visiting. Yesterday she had two separate visitors. I understood that we cannot have people from another household into our homes as we are now in Tier 2. My friend is also planning to flout the rules. She is saying it is her support bubble. Yet I am doing as I am asked and have not been to visit my sons. I know we can visit in gardens but the weather isn't great. AIBU to be getting slightly p'd off with the blatant disregard for the guidance.