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English language - where is it going to? AIBU

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TwinLolly Sat 21-Nov-20 10:33:46

Maybe I'm being unreasonable and very menopausal but there are words that are getting under my skin.

* "Co-worker" seems to be a new word for colleague.

* "Super" this and "super" that instead of "very" or "huge", etc.

* "Denied", e.g. as in "he/she was denied entry" - instead of "refused entry", or other cases where the world "refused" would make more sense than the word "denied".

* Where has the word "donated" gone to. It's now "gifted".

* I get confused when reading a newspaper or magazine article where people are now referred to by their surnames only without the Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms. I lose the plot as to who is who confused. I'd prefer to referred to as Mrs Surname or my first name.

There are other words too, but I can't think of them now.

Rant over. Sorry! blush

grandMattie Sun 22-Nov-20 17:20:52

Pressurised instead of pressured...

Scrappydo Sun 22-Nov-20 18:16:40

Overuse of the word Lush ?

grandMattie Sun 22-Nov-20 18:35:07

Always reminds me of an alcoholic!

VioletCloud Sun 22-Nov-20 18:36:56

I dislike the word 'upcoming'. It makes me think of a cat with a fur ball problem. Whatever happened to 'forthcoming'?

Nagmad2016 Sun 22-Nov-20 18:41:15

Sentences that start with 'So' or answers to a question .....Arrggh

readalot Sun 22-Nov-20 18:43:01

One thing I hate is when people say my bad. I've made two new words up this week. I couldn't decide whether it was March or May so I said Mach, I don't know where that came from. Then the morning I was going out the front door and there was something on the doormat, meanwhile I'm talking to myself and said it looks like a Snug. I was thinking Snail or Slug but what came out of my mouth was Snug. Luckily it was dead. What old age does to you

Musicgirl Sun 22-Nov-20 18:49:59

I am with you on co-worker. It is American and looks like cow to me. I deliberately use colleague. I really dislike swearing too. I find it is mainly Americanisms that irritate me to distraction. Nothing wrong with them there but everything wrong with them here. I have even seen and heard my arch bete noir - gotten. Grr.

Musicgirl Sun 22-Nov-20 18:50:36

Oh yes, my bad and meh. Dreadful.

sharon103 Sun 22-Nov-20 18:57:34

Charleygirl5

I hate to hear every third word in a sentence being "like" and I have noticed some young children are picking this up- possibly from their parents.

So do I Charleygirl I could scream!

sharon103 Sun 22-Nov-20 19:02:59

That's so funny readalot Sun 22-Nov-20 18:43:01 grin

KerryS Sun 22-Nov-20 19:15:01

My husband has just suggested a couple of things he finds irritating- making one word out of two e.g chillax, and getting an 'invite' which should surely be 'invitation'!

LuckyFour Mon 23-Nov-20 10:02:53

I love your example Merlotgran, it made me and DH laugh out loud. I cringe every time I hear some of these language clangers. What can we do except carry on speaking perfect Queen's English! Just joking, I'm sure my Lancashire accent and phrases befuddle my Devon friends.
Is 'befuddle' a word?

Sewpolly Mon 23-Nov-20 10:05:25

Two of my pet hates, are the use of the word literally when it's not literal at all and daughter-in-laws as plural. The plural of daughter-in-law is daughters-in-law. Language does evolve though and we just have to go with it. Otherwise we'd all still be saying thee and thou!

railman Mon 23-Nov-20 13:27:48

This is a fascinating thread.

So, my wife and me were out for a walk the other day, but we couldn't use the sidewalk going past a bungalow, cos they ad the road up for pothole mendin and new water pipes.

Would liked to have gotten coffee while we were out, but the store was shut.

Ah well - that's everlutionary language forms for you.

Doodledog Mon 23-Nov-20 13:32:41

railman

This is a fascinating thread.

So, my wife and me were out for a walk the other day, but we couldn't use the sidewalk going past a bungalow, cos they ad the road up for pothole mendin and new water pipes.

Would liked to have gotten coffee while we were out, but the store was shut.

Ah well - that's everlutionary language forms for you.

Did yous go past the uni?

Lucca Mon 23-Nov-20 14:34:19

sue01

I swear... when people kill adverbs !

Wrap up warm..... aaarrrrgh !!

I think that’s fine actually ! You’re not wrapping warmly.

Lucca Mon 23-Nov-20 14:36:41

Dogsjj

Where has the word hope disappeared to. I keep hearing, I'm looking to buying, afternoon looking to going too. Drives me mad!

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Lucca Mon 23-Nov-20 14:41:30

mistymitts

I do not like being sweared at but I am very happy to swear at something or in a stressful situation. If I stub my toe if does help to say F...F... F... Rather than Owww! May well be psychological but still helps.

Er....”sweared at”?

Grandma70s Mon 23-Nov-20 14:44:01

Has anyone mentioned ‘lie’ and ‘lay’? They are hopelessly confused by many people. When I hear something about laying on the bed I want to ask whether they are laying eggs or bricks.


“I was tired so I laid on the bed” I want to ask

Grandma70s Mon 23-Nov-20 14:46:13

I posted that without editing properly. Disregard the last line.

MamaCaz Mon 23-Nov-20 17:16:40

Nothing wrong with 'wrap up warm', as far as I am concerned. I would say it describes the desired end result, rather than the action - is it even possible to do that action 'warmly'?

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:40:58

I manage not to get exercised over language developing - it is what all languages do.

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:43:35

The introduction of the word "gotten" is fascinating - it is becoming commonplace now. I wonder whether it is a US import, or whether it is in fact old English.

Luckygirl Mon 23-Nov-20 17:45:32

Just looked it up:

Gotten' is, in fact, an ancient English word that was in use in England at the time America was colonized by the English. Over the centuries, the Americans kept on using it and the English did not. Origin: 1150-1200

Isn't language wonderful? If I had written gotten in school I would have got the ruler over the knuckles!

Chardy Mon 23-Nov-20 21:45:54

On TV this morning, the Royal Correspondent no less said 'must of'!! Grrr

'Eat healthy' grrr