The OP said she needs the help from her dd, as shes disabled, but also said she is the one giving the help to her dd, whose anxious being home alone? So, a 2way win.But not a win for the neighbour.But a small child running round above you for nearly 3 hrs almost every day is enough to drive you crazy.(imagine,(or remember) the holidays where a small child/children thudded around up above in an upstairs room/apartment/chalet? And that being only for a few days?Almost every day must be a nightmare.But also, you're not helping your dd to get used to being alone in her own home with the kids either, or to get any real help with her anxiety.Just puts it off while you all have a nice tea & play games.Could you 'face' your daughters steps and visit her some days? Could they maybe provide a porta loo for you downstairs, (or even a comode) to make it easier? Or can they afford a stair lift in their house, so you can go help there, but its easier for you to manage the toilet. But none of those are your neighbour's problems.Yes you should have family visits, but they seem a bit much, and if its at your neighbours cost then you need to take that into consideration too. Also, your dd can't just keep coming to your flat forever, for 2-3 hrs for years on end, (you said its because she's anxious at home) but it won't be practical to do that forever.If you go to hers you can help her maybe get used to being there more.Maybe she can get her Gp's help too, with the anxiety.Think over how to help all round.Not just put the kettle on.?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
Oversharing of personal information - have we reached the nadir?
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