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Facebook and ex issue- anyone else had this?

(34 Posts)
Katie59 Mon 12-Apr-21 07:53:23

If it was me I would contact him directly and ask him to remove them, don’t make a drama of it he either will or won’t.

simtib Mon 12-Apr-21 07:48:04

Never try and erase history, just learn from it, so you don't make the same mistakes again.

NotSpaghetti Sun 11-Apr-21 23:50:13

I don’t know Facebook but can you ask them that you aren’t “tagged” I wonder?
The photos will still be there though I assume.

lemsip Sun 11-Apr-21 23:36:47

tell your friend that your not interested so not to tell you things about him

cornishpatsy Sun 11-Apr-21 22:48:32

You were part of his past and most people have photos of their past on Facebook. He has probably forgotten about them or just does not see an issue with them being there.

keepingquiet Sun 11-Apr-21 22:32:52

Maybe I'm making something out of nothing then. It isn't worth contacting him to tell him to take them down, just came as a shock to know he hasn't bothered after three years. He always was lazy, lol! More important things to spend my thoughts on.

Jaxjacky Sun 11-Apr-21 20:19:09

Many moons ago when we had actual photos he could have kept any of you, shown them to his friends etc, it’s not really any different.

simtib Sun 11-Apr-21 19:39:01

If your ex posted them on his facebook page then only he can remove them. Your friend could report them to facebook but unless they break their rules they are unlikely to do anything.

keepingquiet Sun 11-Apr-21 18:53:29

Three years ago my nine year relationship broke up very suddenly. I blocked my ex and his family from my Facebook page and deleted all his photos from my profile.
We have only one remaining friend in common, and she doesn't use Facebook much. I think if I asked she would now unfriend him, but in the early days I think she wanted to keep an eye on him!
However three years later she tells me my photos are still there in his page and I don't know why.
I have no inclination to ask him to remove them but I'm wondering if that is my only option.
Should I ask my friend to do it or should I do it myself?
Can Facebook ask him for me?
I don't want to re-friend him I just feel uncomfortable with my images and my families still being on his page as of we're still an item. It's beginning to bother me more than it did before.