I chose AIBU because it's busy here.
I'm asking for honesty even if people wish to change names to hide Identity.
We all know there are family members who are dishonest, greedy, selfish and who rip off their family members when it comes to inheritance. There are family member who lie about others and manipulate people so they can get what they want.
We always hear from the victims of those family members but we never hear it from the point of view of the person who knowingly caused all that damage for money or attention or because they were jealous.
What I am asking is did anybody here behave in that way years ago when they were younger and how is their life today. Do they regret it? Are they lonely? Are they sorry? Or are they happy with their choices? Do they feel it's the only way to get ahead in life? would they do it all again?
I don't want people to judge I just want to understand WHY this happens and how it pans out in the future as so many families are effected by this issue and so many people site this kind of behaviour as the cause of estrangement.
We need to hear honestly from all sides.
I hope there are some willing to share.
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