A lady I went to university with then got back in touch with years later.
She was the first one to get in contact as she had moved back to the area. We met that week, this was in March so not much to do other than go for a walk. We were out walking for about an hour and it was nice to catch up, there were one or two silences but I didn't think anything of it, I am fairly quiet person but I thought we got on well.
She told me to let her know when I next wanted to meet up, so around a month later I messaged and we arranged a day. The day before we were due to meet she texted me to cancel as she had to babysit in the end.
I said that's fine and could she do the following week, and she said yes. Then I said well what about X day and time and she said oh actually I forgot i can't do that day, but I can do X and X day the following week.
So once again I said no problem, and we arranged it for this Monday. On Sunday she texts me saying oh I'm so sorry I forgot I was going to a dinner party on Monday, can we do next week?
Getting slightly frustrated at this point but I decide to give it one more chance, I say yes ok, what days next week can we do?
That was Monday and she's not replied to the message and we're now Friday, yet it's saying she's been online.
It's just very flaky and the thing is she's no children or anything, and single, I'm sure she could find an hour in her life to meet up. I work nights and doing 46 hours this week yet I've made time.
Shall I just assume that she's not interested in meeting me and this is her trying to be polite about it?
I have had this before with a female friend of my partner's who I tried to become friendlier with, she proclaimed to want to meet up then just never replied to my messages.
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