The excessive drinking is certainly not helping his erectile dysfunction or diabetes. Poorly controlled diabetes can lead to some alarming consequences, even amputation. Do you love him enough to nurse him come what may? Could your lovely house be suitably adapted or would you possibly face moving to more convenient accommodation?
Sorry to ask difficult questions as I do feel for you, but better to think it through clearly now rather than wait til he becomes so unwell that you would feel cruel to ask him to leave.
I’ve got a lovely soft hearted friend who is now stuck between a rock and a hard place with a man who quite clearly loves himself far more than he loves her. Her children are loosing patience and also left looking as if they are interested only in their potential inheritance when they intervene, which is not the case.
Good Morning Good Friday 29th March 2024
Son on rebound - wants to marry