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Binders. The world has gone mad.

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kircubbin2000 Wed 10-Nov-21 18:47:47

Lush and a company called Gender swap are offering young girls chest binders which they can collect without their parents knowing .This can damage chests and ribs but from the comments on Lush page the girls are flocking to buy these.. Sounds dangerous.

Allsorts Mon 15-Nov-21 20:41:19

Why would they give binders away? Can’t understand anyone wanting one. Refuse to buy from Lush, everything smells sickly. It would have to be a sheet to flatten me.

GagaJo Mon 15-Nov-21 20:39:09

VioletSky

Important facts:

Parents simply using a trans child/teens preferred pronouns:

Reduces symptoms of severe depression by 71%

It reduces suicidal thoughts by 34%

It reduces suicide attempts by 65%

So yes we need to support trans children and young adults because not doing so is harming them severely.

But of course, more important even than this is the opinions of others who are not involved!

Pammie1 Mon 15-Nov-21 20:37:20

I think it is always helpful to look at historical patterns and there is no doubt that women have restricted their bodies for various reasons at different times.

This is utter nonsense. There IS no historical pattern for what’s happening now, but by all means let’s make it up to support crap theories.

Pammie1 Mon 15-Nov-21 20:33:02

GagaJo

AmberSpyglass

It isn’t young girls who are wearing binders - it’s young trans men and non binary people.

Exactly. These children are resorting to taking matters into their own hands, having been denied access to support elsewhere. The consequences of making trans support harder and harder to access. Of course, covid hasn't helped either.

I think the word ‘children’ is the most obvious thing in your post. They’re children and they should be protected until they are mature enough to make decisions that will affect the rest of their lives. What we’re really talking about is parental control. Since when was this a bad thing ?

Pammie1 Mon 15-Nov-21 20:28:26

VioletSky

Important facts:

Parents simply using a trans child/teens preferred pronouns:

Reduces symptoms of severe depression by 71%

It reduces suicidal thoughts by 34%

It reduces suicide attempts by 65%

So yes we need to support trans children and young adults because not doing so is harming them severely.

What!!!!?????

VioletSky Mon 15-Nov-21 20:25:45

Important facts:

Parents simply using a trans child/teens preferred pronouns:

Reduces symptoms of severe depression by 71%

It reduces suicidal thoughts by 34%

It reduces suicide attempts by 65%

So yes we need to support trans children and young adults because not doing so is harming them severely.

Mollygo Mon 15-Nov-21 19:56:03

Elegran

Cis anything is Tautology. If something is the same as it always was, there is no need to point it out.

My eyes are cisblue and I am cisrighthanded. Water is ciswet, but dust is cisdry.

Perfect response Elegran.
I’m not cis anything either because I am a woman.

Boogaloo Mon 15-Nov-21 19:36:50

I did a fair amount of business with Lush. Earlier, this summer I stopped buying things from them. Two other people I know have done the same.

Doodledog Mon 15-Nov-21 18:59:02

FWIW, I also find the term 'Cis' offensive when used without consent, and bristle when anyone expects me to use it about myself, as I am not Cis - I am a woman and I know what that means.

I can see, however, that in the confines of a discussion about a situation that involves trans children we might need to have a jargon word that describes non-trans ones, too?

Elegran Mon 15-Nov-21 18:55:49

Not the same as cis-anything at all, amberspyglass.

Heterosexual means attracted to people of the other sex - male to female, or female to male, homosexual meals attracted to people of the same sex male to male or female to female. Neither word refers to the sex that someone is themselves.

Doodledog Mon 15-Nov-21 18:54:42

AmberSpyglass

I’ll hunt the research out tonight and post them here - they were invented for cis children to slow down very early puberty, and the children then went along to mature at a ‘usual’ time. It’s only the cross sex hormones that actually change anything on a fundamental level, and they’re not prescribed until 18.

I’ll post links and summaries after dinner!

Thank you. I would be interested to see them.

trisher Mon 15-Nov-21 18:28:18

Puberty blockers have been used for children with early onset puberty for sometime.They have also been used in the US for children who were noticeably shorter than average as they do enable extra growth.(although this isn't recommended) They have side effects these depend upon how long they are taken for and the health advice supporting their use. So they can cause bone thinning resulting in early osteoporosis, but most think this can be alleviated by dietary supplements and exercise whilst on the drug. Like most drugs they need to be taken with proper medical supervision. Some early onset puberty patients have taken them for years the earliest I found was aged 5 until she was 9.

AmberSpyglass Mon 15-Nov-21 18:26:48

No different from heterosexual vs homosexual.

Elegran Mon 15-Nov-21 18:24:52

Cis anything is Tautology. If something is the same as it always was, there is no need to point it out.

My eyes are cisblue and I am cisrighthanded. Water is ciswet, but dust is cisdry.

GrannyMacawell Mon 15-Nov-21 18:22:09

cis...is a term many find offensive.

AmberSpyglass Mon 15-Nov-21 18:18:23

Oh, sorry! I didn’t mean to use jargon, I thought it was a fairly well known term now.

“Cisgender” just means the opposite to transgender, ie the sex the doctor wrote down on your birth certificate is the same as the gender you are now.

Riverwalk Mon 15-Nov-21 18:12:02

AmberSpyglass

I don’t think so, Riverwalk. I’d imagine there’s rather a lot of them about.

I've never heard of the term 'Cis children'.

GrannyMacawell Mon 15-Nov-21 18:11:13

nhs. ,not ngs

GrannyMacawell Mon 15-Nov-21 18:09:41

from the ngs website
"Little is known about the long-term side effects of hormone or puberty blockers in children with gender dysphoria."

AmberSpyglass Mon 15-Nov-21 18:08:59

I don’t think so, Riverwalk. I’d imagine there’s rather a lot of them about.

Riverwalk Mon 15-Nov-21 18:07:34

Cis children - is that a first?

AmberSpyglass Mon 15-Nov-21 18:04:14

I’ll hunt the research out tonight and post them here - they were invented for cis children to slow down very early puberty, and the children then went along to mature at a ‘usual’ time. It’s only the cross sex hormones that actually change anything on a fundamental level, and they’re not prescribed until 18.

I’ll post links and summaries after dinner!

Riverwalk Mon 15-Nov-21 18:04:13

AmberSpyglass

There aren’t any. They’ve been in use since the 1980s and there hasn’t been any long term damage reported.

Riverwalk you’re quite right! Thank you - trans boys, trans men and NB people.

And no mention of WOMEN.

Says it all!

Doodledog Mon 15-Nov-21 17:58:38

Sorry - cross post.

Doodledog Mon 15-Nov-21 17:58:08

I’d like to know that too please, if you have the figures, AmberSpyglass?

Has there been time for longitudinal studies to be carried out? If so, what were the results of those who changed their minds, and how many people did so after being on puberty blockers for a length of time?