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Turning into my Gran?

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Meg54 Thu 17-Feb-22 20:56:00

I am shocked to admit that today I darned a sock.

The sock was from M&S bought just before Christmas, (part of a set) with a voucher that was about to expire.

I am shocked because:
A. Marksies socks are so flimsy, after 11 weeks!!!
B. I actually took the time to do it
C I had the materials to do it
D. I remembered how to do it
E. I even lamented that coffee jar lids were now too deep to act as an appropriate, whatdoyoumacallit .
F. It took about 5 minutes.
G. I now have the contents of my "sewing stuff" drawer spread out on the dining table, which I know will take a week to organise before putting away again.
H. And I still feel kind of smug about it - even though I am not short of socks.
Anyone else ready to confess to Grannie moments?
Meg.

Lexisgranny Sat 19-Feb-22 14:05:41

I still have a silver thimble that my grandmother aged 10 (1896) won as a school prize for sewing. Although I have never used a thimble, it sits in my sewing basket and I always remember how she spoke so fondly of her teacher whose name was Miss Dale and came from the Scilly Isles. She was certainly an excellent teacher if my grandmother was typical of her pupils.

margarett Sat 19-Feb-22 14:11:31

I've recently been doing quite a bit of darning because my friend has some knitted slippers that she really loves, had worn holes in them, but wouldn't throw them away. She knows I do a lot of sewing and knitting do asked me to mend them. I have knitted her a new pair of slippers, but she still wears the old ones.

mokryna Sat 19-Feb-22 14:19:41

I have the mushroom and thimble from my mother and still use them for my 3DDs and GC.
However I remember another gadget to mend holes that was made of metal, an inch or so long with sort of needles on two levels. The top layer was woven with the wool and then a lever was pushed to be able to weave in the lower level giving a very professional look. Does anyone else remember this?

annodomini Sat 19-Feb-22 14:22:40

I have my maternal granny's silver thimble. It's too small for my fingers, but as I rarely sew, it doesn't really matter. She did lovely embroidery and did try to teach me. I once made a 'hostess' apron at school and the teacher told us to insert a 'richly embroidered' panel. I did try...
The other granny was a non-stop knitter who knitted socks for the troops during the war. So I have taken after her, and my aunt, and my mum. As for darning, my sewing teacher gave me 3/10 for that - or it might have been for a buttonhole, but you get the picture!

Pedwards Sat 19-Feb-22 14:58:39

Urmstongran

Not me, but Himself mentioned the other day he’d not had ‘cabbage and ribs’ for 50 years (since he married me I suppose) that his gran used to make in a big pan on the hob. Said the meat ‘fell off the bones’.

Poor neglected man.
I’m a mean woman.

Ooh cabbage and ribs, bit had that for years! I did ask at our butchers a while back and they said they do have them in the freezer if I ever wanted them. ?

Joesoap Sat 19-Feb-22 15:13:56

My Mum used to have a darning mushroom, she was so good at darning,I wish I had kept the mushroom, not that I would use it but to remind me of my Mum when she darned, bless her.

Greciangirl Sat 19-Feb-22 15:16:54

My Dd never learnt to sew at school or at home.

So whenever she needs something mended, she asks me to do it.

I don’t mind, as I quite like getting a needle and thread out.
I used to do patchwork sewing years ago and always enjoyed it.

Joesoap Sat 19-Feb-22 15:22:44

Chrissyoh,I am a scouser too I havent heard of pastry being in a Scouse, its meat and veg then served with beetroot, delicious,I suppose the pastry was more filling and went a long way.Im getting hungry now!

Bijou Sat 19-Feb-22 16:21:01

My mother made all my and my sisters dresses and we loved going to the shop to choose the material. Fourpence halfpenny a yard or sixpence a yard for special dresses. We used to unpick wooden jumpers and cardigans and reknit or retro net them. Socks and stockings were darned. We were a fairly wealthy family.
When my children were little it was necessary to have coupons to buy clothes so everything was hand made. When I was teaching my daughter how to knit for her Brownie badge my husband was interested. The first thing he knitted was a layette for his sisters baby and after he made all his pullovers and socks. Those were the days.

pat9 Sat 19-Feb-22 16:42:53

I have a mushroom. I bought it years ago and used it to darn a sock quite recently

Thisismyname1953 Sat 19-Feb-22 17:40:13

If my mum couldn’t find her darning mushroom she would use a lightbulb.

Pammie1 Sat 19-Feb-22 18:47:58

Urmstongran

Not me, but Himself mentioned the other day he’d not had ‘cabbage and ribs’ for 50 years (since he married me I suppose) that his gran used to make in a big pan on the hob. Said the meat ‘fell off the bones’.

Poor neglected man.
I’m a mean woman.

He’s not neglected and you’re not mean. Get bacon ribs from your local butcher (I’ve never seen them in a supermarket, so wouldn’t even try). Soak them in cold water for about an hour before cooking and it really is what he said - you leave them to cook until the meat falls off the bone. To be traditional the cabbage was cooked in the liquor from the ribs, but I tend to cook it quickly in fresh water as I do normally and serve the ribs with the cooked cabbage, a baked potato and some mustard sauce - made with a butter and flour roux, then some milk mixed 50/50 with the cooking liquor from the ribs, a bit of cream if you have it, a good spoonful of English mustard and seasoned to taste. Fab.

happycatholicwife1 Sat 19-Feb-22 18:53:57

I have my wonderful grandmother's darning egg. I have displayed it ever since I've had it. My grandmother was very artistic with sewing, embroidery, lace tatting, crochet, knitting, rug hooking. Plus, she made the best chocolate chip cookies ever. I miss her.

Pammie1 Sat 19-Feb-22 19:07:12

Nannina

As a student nurse 50 years ago we had to wear particular stockings as part of a strict uniform policy. The only place to get them was Cole Brothers which later became John Lewis. They were in pale grey shade, expensive and were soon laddered by unforgiving hospital equipment. I became very popular as my waist length blonde hair made the ladder repair almost invisible. We’d have been straight in front of matron if we appeared with a ladder and carpeted for even a hint of nail varnish ?

Having been born with Spina Bifida I spent most of the first 15 years of my life in hospital. Your post brought back lovely memories of the dedicated nurses who made life comfortable and fun for those long stays after surgeries. I spent a good deal of my childhood in Alder Hey hospital in Liverpool and I remember how strict things were. The nurses had to be in full uniform with a clean apron over the dress every day, cap in place and a cape worn when going on or off duty. I remember lights being snapped on at 6am every morning and the smell of toast being prepared for breakfast, bedlinen being changed every day and beds pulled out into the middle of the ward every day for cleaning, meals being served from big metal trolleys, and the staff practically standing to attention when the consultants did a ward round !! I also remember listening in horror at one nurse being carpeted by the ward sister for going off the hospital grounds in uniform and told she was irresponsible for risking bringing infection back into the hospital as a result. How things have changed.

Pammie1 Sat 19-Feb-22 19:14:38

Joesoap

Chrissyoh,I am a scouser too I havent heard of pastry being in a Scouse, its meat and veg then served with beetroot, delicious,I suppose the pastry was more filling and went a long way.Im getting hungry now!

I’m from Liverpool originally and I make scouse with lamb neck (I think it used to be called scrag end) or breast of lamb, onions, celery, carrots and swede with roughly cut floury potatoes - and a tablespoon of barley. Lob scouse was made without meat - usually by boiling a lamb bone after it had been used for the roast on Sunday and whatever it was used for the next day, then adding the veg to the broth. I’ve heard of scouse pie, but more usually, to make it go further the scouse was served on a slice of bread to soak up the gravy.

Pammie1 Sat 19-Feb-22 19:16:26

I remember scouse served with pickled beetroot and also with piccalilli. Yum.

Nan0 Sat 19-Feb-22 20:41:22

You are wonderful!!!love your post!!

Jools22 Sat 19-Feb-22 21:15:28

My wife inherited a darning mushroom years ago and since we’ve had the Gc, the eldest being 11yrs, my wife must have used it every month

Seabreeze Sat 19-Feb-22 22:55:57

I have a darning mushroom. Not used it. I have turned two collars on otherwise perfectly good shirts. Made my own clothes when younger and knitted my own cardigans. Crocheted a dress for my baby daughter. All these crafts taught by my mother.

GreenGran78 Sat 19-Feb-22 23:31:34

My DD, now 50, told me that she's turning into me! All the things that I used to say to them, as children, she now finds herself saying to her teenagers.
It was my job to darn my Dad's woollen work socks, from quite an early age. Heaven help me if they turned out lumpy, too. I don't darn socks any more, but recently I made a good job of my son's favourite jumper, which was getting thin on the elbows. I don't know what happened to Mum's wooden mushroom, though. My sister probably asked her for it, as she did with many other things.

Madmeg Sun 20-Feb-22 00:05:58

Whenever we have a chicken for Sunday lunch, on Day 3 or 4, the carcass goes in a huge pan and with veg, lentils and fluffy dumplings it makes a heart-warming dinner. We call it a broth. A couple of years ago I met two cousins from New Zealand who were born in the UK and we all discovered we made the same trifle that our gran used to make!

I can darn, knit and crochet thanks to my gran. I'm okay at embroidery too. All dying arts.

Nonny Sun 20-Feb-22 07:41:04

I only had one granny and I don't think she darned!
I have a darning mushroom and used it to darn the elbows on my husbands jumpers and socks when we were first married 47 years ago. However I couldn't get the darning wool anymore so stopped ! Can you still buy darning wool?

f77ms Sun 20-Feb-22 09:22:21

I do darn and have a mushroom, my 39 year old son also recently darned his cashmere jumper bought from a charity shop years ago. I make lots of things my mum and gran made, leek and cheese on toast, scotch pancakes, bacon ribs and cabbage, neck of lamb stew. I would darn socks if they were decent ones. Very disappointed with the quality of Marks clothing these days!

Kali2 Sun 20-Feb-22 09:26:31

Pammie1

Joesoap

Chrissyoh,I am a scouser too I havent heard of pastry being in a Scouse, its meat and veg then served with beetroot, delicious,I suppose the pastry was more filling and went a long way.Im getting hungry now!

I’m from Liverpool originally and I make scouse with lamb neck (I think it used to be called scrag end) or breast of lamb, onions, celery, carrots and swede with roughly cut floury potatoes - and a tablespoon of barley. Lob scouse was made without meat - usually by boiling a lamb bone after it had been used for the roast on Sunday and whatever it was used for the next day, then adding the veg to the broth. I’ve heard of scouse pie, but more usually, to make it go further the scouse was served on a slice of bread to soak up the gravy.

I had no idea 'scouse' was actually a meal- thanks for this.

Chrissyoh Sun 20-Feb-22 10:48:30

Kali2
? Yes - I make Scouse - I eat Scouse - & I’m a Scouser grin.