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Poppyjo Sun 10-Apr-22 22:03:53

I was in the kitchen with the back door wide open. I was busy and talking out loud to myself! I turned around and there was a workman standing looking at me. I wanted the ground to open up and swallow me. Trying to think of something to say so he would not think I was mad I turned around and began talking to an imaginary cat. I felt so awful.. please tell me I am not alone in this or is it too late for me?

giulia Mon 11-Apr-22 20:32:32

I had often noticed and been amused by people in supermarkets muttering and talking to themselves - quite loudly sometimes. Both men and women.

They're usually trying to find some specific article and are getting frustrated!

Then I overheard myself one day saying "Where on earth have they hidden the XX?!"

Yammy Mon 11-Apr-22 18:31:31

I talk to myself,I'm also told I'm getting like my father who argued with the television. I tell the washer and tumbler to shut up when I am doing something else and they bleep.
I've also practised a lecture I had to give out loud and was unfortunately heard by a friend on the corridor who answered one of the questions I was asking an empty room. We had such a good laugh.blush

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 11-Apr-22 17:47:43

That’s lovely Paddy. I really miss having my girl to talk to.

GillT57 Mon 11-Apr-22 17:31:03

The nicest talking to yourself or pets story was on MN a few months ago. A woman changed her mind about her grumpy old man neighbour when she overheard him as he walked past with his elderly dog. He was talking to the dog in a kind gentle way explaining where they were going for their walk and then back home for their supper, like a kindly grandfather taking a toddler.to the park. For some reason this lovely story stayed with me!

paddyann54 Mon 11-Apr-22 16:36:07

I was weeding the garden when a neighbour passed ,he was looking at me a bit strangely .I only realised I'd been talking to my cat who was sitting on the garage roof watching me as he disappeared round the corner .I did explain on his return trip though and he said he talks to his dog as its the only thing/person who gives him sensible answers ,Seems to be a common occurence

JaneJudge Mon 11-Apr-22 16:25:05

my husband has never lived it down that he had a whole conversation with himself next to a baby monitor upstairs whilst we all heard it downstairs. It was like a telephone conversation. Thank god no one was in the room downstairs that he was going on about blush

DiscoDancer1975 Mon 11-Apr-22 16:21:32

I’ve always talked to myself. The strange thing is...since my husband has semi retired, he’s often appeared in the room I’m in....chatting away to myself, because I’ve forgotten he’s at home!

He wants to know who I’m talking to. It’s strange, because when I actually am talking to him....he ignores me.

biglouis Mon 11-Apr-22 16:17:01

I often talk to myself when I am marshalling my thoughts to explain something on the phone or in writing. I dont give a dogs damn if people think I am that crazy deaf old bat at number X who talks to herself.

I have told quite a few people I have invisible aliens living in my house!

It means that people are less likely to bother me, wanting favours etc. Im not in the least deaf and only wear glasses for close work. However being selectively deaf, short sighted and eccentric can have many advantages.

Bellanonna Mon 11-Apr-22 10:21:29

This is hilarious. I’ve laughed out loud several times - youths in trees, imaginary cats, practising for a conference in the car. I’m feeling reassured that I’m completely normal. Perhaps we should be worried about those who don’t talk to themselves?

Grannybags Mon 11-Apr-22 09:49:13

Poppyjo's cat was imaginary though!

I talk to myself all the time and always agree with myself! grin

henetha Mon 11-Apr-22 09:46:12

I talk to Wiggy out loud all the time. Or if she's in a bad mood, to myself instead. grin

V3ra Mon 11-Apr-22 09:44:40

My 37 year old son talks to himself, especially when he's in the shower, so it's not an old age thing.

AreWeThereYet Mon 11-Apr-22 09:41:20

I was once sat in my car in a traffic jam on the way to work (a long time before mobile phones ? ) and decided to practice my discussion points for the conference I was going to, as I was a bit nervous. Ten minutes later in full flow I glanced at the car alongside me and the four young men in it were killing themselves laughing, each imitating my head and hand movements and mouthing a lot of nothings, heads pressed up against the windows in my direction.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 11-Apr-22 09:29:32

Animals are the very best listeners Daisymae. You can tell them everything and they’ll never repeat it or argue with you.?

Daisymae Mon 11-Apr-22 09:26:05

Talking to yourself is fine, tad worried about the ??

Witzend Mon 11-Apr-22 09:06:53

This might make you feel a bit better!
I wasn’t talking to myself, but to our dog - the usual (for me) extreme baby talk, ‘Mummy love oo!’ etc. Out loud!

I was in a very well wooded part of the nearby park, and (as I thought) completely alone. That is, until I heard the sound of extreme mirth - there were two young blokes up a big tree, absolutely wetting themselves laughing!

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 11-Apr-22 09:06:47

I often talk to myself. The time to worry is when you start arguing with yourself.

Nannylovesshopping Mon 11-Apr-22 08:49:26

I have my best conversations with myself?

AGAA4 Mon 11-Apr-22 08:44:11

I do talk to myself but I really need to find someone sensible to talk to.

Esmay Mon 11-Apr-22 07:50:29

Poppyjo - you are not alone .
I talk to myself a lot .
I'm also conscious of turning into the crazy old lady, who talks to everyone at the busstop , on the bus and in shops.
When I lived in a flat and was cleaning the kitchen I did a very enthusiastic dance with a broom to Tamla Motown in full view of the astonished new neighbours ,who were having a party !

BlueBelle Mon 11-Apr-22 02:22:24

I always talk to myself the worrying part is I answer too ?

Redhead56 Sun 10-Apr-22 23:35:12

That's me eccentric so I have been told but I don't give a monkeys uncle. My attitude is take me as you find me or not at all I talk sense even to myself ?

Spinnaker Sun 10-Apr-22 23:27:59

I find the good thing about talking to oneself is that you always win in an argument grin

MissAdventure Sun 10-Apr-22 23:23:38

One of my exes phoned me, but didn't hang up properly.
I heard him talking in a Bruce Lee type voice, running into his living room and saying "Aaahaa!" then doing his Bruce type kicks and karate chops on on an imaginary person. grin

OnwardandUpward Sun 10-Apr-22 22:41:19

I always talk to myself ... I never shut up. Quite good company for myself, really haha. Occaisionally people do notice, but I have stopped caring. Goodness knows what I'll be like when I actually hit my older years!!!