Inconsiderate behaviour in theatres

People these days consider the cinema or theatre as an extension of their tv room at home where they chat, wander about, eat snacks or full meals & generally jump up & down. It doesn’t occur to them to consider other patrons might like a bit of hush to enjoy the performance/film. Respect has gone out of the window. It’s up to the theatre management to lay down the rules and make sure they’re adhered to. It doesn’t help that cinemas sell all kinds of food for consumption during the performance. At a pantomime many years ago at the King’s Theatre in Edinburgh, the family alongside us munched their way through deep fried haggis & chips during the 2nd act ?

I loved being at the theatre one evening. There were two ladies beginning to chat during the performance, well, this lady of senior years just turned her head and went ' sshht'. The look on the ladies faces was worth the ticket price. They never uttered a single word for the rest of the evening.

That made me laugh Pepper I am very intolerant and I don’t hide my annoyance either!

Don't go often to theatre or cinema, like others mainly due to the noise and mobile phones. Don't get me started on concerts and drunk folk.

I mentioned hot food in the cinema. I’m not aware that hot food can be taken into theatres, but maybe someone will be along who knows differently.

It's not a good thing if it spoils enjoyment of the performance.

I volunteer at a large theatre and 98% of patrons are fine and just want to enjoy the performance. The ballet, opera, some plays and performances are naturally quiet...but musicals, bands and comedians can be noisy. We don't allow hot food in the auditorium and the FOH staff do the best they can if there is a problem. As theatre has become more accessible it has relaxed...and I think that is a good thing.

My daughter worked at our city centre theatre as an usher and was initially shocked at the amount of loud and unco-operative drunks that came in. She hadn't expected such behaviour and was the butt of extreme rudeness and coarse language several times.

She was often assigned to the 'gods' and most of the audiences were coach parties of retired people, sometimes with mobility difficulties. On more than one occasion she accompanied someone to the toilet during the performance but they didn't know where they were sitting on return. When my daughter asked to see their tickets they'd left it on their seat! Somewhere in the very high up darkness!

Covid ended her temporary work as an usher, I think she was relieved.

We go to a small cinema in Belfast. A message flashes on screen to remind patrons yo turn mobiles off and to not talk during the screening.
When we were young if you talked during a film the usherette shone her torch on you.
Surely theatres could have some rules/guidance.

Mr A and I stopped going to the cinema some time ago, and now rarely go to the theatre either. The constant rustling, moving around, talking on phones, talking generally, really annoys me. I like to be able to concentrate on what I am watching.

The best show we saw in the last few years was Shen Yun - we had seats right at the very back. Proper chairs, not in a row of seats, set behind the last row. Brilliant view, no neighbours to annoy, no getting up and down. In fact the seats in front of us were unused, so we were in our own little world of music, dance and colour. Don't know why it happened but I was very glad it did.

I have volunteered as an usher in our local theatre and while most patrons are polite, we do get some that don't know etiquette. There's a huge difference in the evenings depending on the performance. For a classical music group, everyone knows the rules; for a Christmas pageant...not so much!

Also, because we live in a small town, everyone arrives at the very last minute, and people are still drifting in at 5 or 7 minutes past show start time. Drives me nuts.

I absolutely hate the horrible smell of all sorts of hot food in the cinema. Popcorn or ice creams, or even sweets, are okay, but seriously, hot dogs smothered in foul smelling sauces that everyone else in the cinema is forced to smell are really unacceptable in my opinion. Still it’s all in the name of progress.

Some years ago we went to see Marc Almond in concert. I loved the fact that when a mobile phone went off or people arrived late. He would stop the music and make a point of telling people off for disturbing the audience.

My daughter was performing in a show in Shanghai and she said they were so rude. They’d think nothing of climbing over the backs of the seats and shouting into their phones.

People arriving late and clambering over people to get to their seat really annoy me. They should at the very least be made to sit in the nearest available seats until the interval.
Preferably they shouldn't even be let in until the interval but I suppose you'd have people bleating about their rights.

Totally agree selfish people ruin a trip to the theatre for everyone else.

Plus you can guarantee that late comers will have seats in the middle of the row! Last time we went to the theatre, not only were the people in the mid row seats late for the start, they were also late back from the interval. As we all had to stand to let them pass the people in the row behind us could see nothing but a 'Mexican wave' of bodies. It really is inconsiderate. Even if the late arrival at the start couldn't be avoided because of extenuating circumstances, coming back late from the interval is inexcusable.

It's a general lack of good manners that seems to get worse with every passing year.
I know I'm old now but in my day, it was the norm for children to stand on buses to let an adult sit down.
Now you hear, 'my child will fall over.' What's wrong with sitting a young child on the parent's knee? It's mostly older children I'm talking about, who don't give up their seat.
Behaviour in cinemas and theatres is part of the lack of consideration too.

We went to see a musical recently and were very distracted by the people using their phones to video.
Plus you can guarantee that late comers will have seats in the middle of the row!