Why does he do this?

One day ....
Is he a trigamist do you think?

Germanshepherdsmum

Are we married to the same man Cabbie? It sounds very familiar. ?

Mine too. "It's bound to come in useful or day".

Why does he do this?
How old is he Nandalot
Was he brought up with rationing?

We go through our cupboards a few times a year. Also, my DH is in charge of the freezer, and he does a good job. Things are dated when they go in, etc.

He's more organized than I am. I do have a tendency to purchase too much of one thing, and forget the other. I bought tins of tuna which were on sale, but we already had about 6 in the cupboard. I foresee tuna sandwiches on the menu for lunch for the next while...

Oh dear, GSM!

Are we married to the same man Cabbie? It sounds very familiar. ?

Sounds like my DH too. He never orders one of an item, it has to be three. Not just food. Anything. That includes stationery, ink cartridges, packs of kitchen roll…… our house is full. The garage contains two work benches plus shelves and boxes of stuff- electrical and electronic bits, endless tools, varnishes, gardening tools……hardly any of it is touched these days, but he wont sort it out.

I really couldn’t cope with this. I have very well stocked cupboards , large fridge and upright freezer but putting food in a wardrobe would be a complete no no.

When I hear of posters with houses full of stuff I feel quite queasy. Can’t bear clutter.
Ex H was a bit if a hoarder….and loves trawling charity shops and markets buying a load of unnecessary “stuff”
Thank goodness I am no longer involved.

We have stocked up enough for at least 12 months.
As for out of date stuff,i have eaten canned and frozen foods at least two years out of date,and i am still here to tell the tale.
Funnily enough there was a programme on recently about out of date food,can`t for the life of me remember what it was called.but Greg Wallace was in it.

Like Nanamar’s husband DH cannot resist a bargain. We live a long way from our local town so if we do go anywhere like B and M etc. , he will stock up.

The food we threw away was mainly left over single portions over a year old. If it had been uncooked food, I would not have been so cavalier, but I thought it was risky to use it or even give it to the dog. If I was wrong I stand corrected.

Georgesgran

I probably could manage for a couple of months, just buying perishables as and when, but the OP sounds as if they’ve got enough for a siege.

Lol Georgesgran - 'enough for a siege' - I nearly choked on my coffee!

I am the same as you - enough for a couple of months though I do have an upright freezer and a small freezer both kept full as |I cook and freeze in bulk.

I have never headed food I have a small cupboard with tins jars and squeezy bottles in which I keep topped up as I use them I have a under the counter three drawer freezer and a under the counter fridge I think it’s bad to keep so much food in every cupboard and even a wardrobe and actually I think you’re husband has a problem
The only thing in my medicine cupboard more than one packet is paracetamol and probably ibrufen
It really is unnecessary and a bit naughty to then be throwing stuff out !

Oh my - my late DH was the same! Part of the situation was that he truly enjoyed shopping and got into what is called here in the states “big box stores” in which we can purchase paper products and non perishables in huge quantities. So our basement was filled with them. Not particularly a problem until, after his death, I moved 3000 miles across the country to a house that has no basement and/or large storage room. My theory as to the “why?” He always liked being prepared, felt great responsibility for providing for the home - but in his case he also couldn’t pass up a bargain. In addition there is some social research to support that men like to take up space - as sort of a power thing. I dislike gender stereotypes but I know that he himself said that since he was not a particularly large man he liked to spread out when sitting, for example.

Calendargirl

We are always reading on GN how shocking it is in this day and age that people are having to resort to food banks, so if the OP is throwing good food away simply because her pantry, fridges and freezers are rammed with so much food that it’s out of date, then yes, I stand by my comments, judgemental or not Thistlelass.

Surely she must have been aware of how much foodstuff her husband has been acquiring? If he’s having memory problems, then she needs to help him sort out their food requirements.

But food does get freezer burned or finds it's way to the back of the shelves and overlooked. We have stuff in our cupboards that we bought when our boy was at home and when he left for Uni, he didn't want to take it with him so it had gone out of date. My daughter stayed with us for 6 months and left stuff in the freezer that we would never eat so it will have to go. We generally kept freezer burned food to feed the dog but he died so we will have to chuck some away. Meanwhile running a full freezer uses less energy than running an emptier one so I am actually being eco friendly.
Food waste isn't a deliberate thing in our house and had I had the time, I would have sorted it out and sent it to the food bank.

There is an excellent app called olio, the idea is that you can give away food that is not wanted. I know my son has given away part jars of unwanted things. May be of use to OP

Yes! My husband does exactly the same, Nandalot. It drives me crazy and when we put the house on the market he will have to stop!

We are always reading on GN how shocking it is in this day and age that people are having to resort to food banks, so if the OP is throwing good food away simply because her pantry, fridges and freezers are rammed with so much food that it’s out of date, then yes, I stand by my comments, judgemental or not Thistlelass.

Surely she must have been aware of how much foodstuff her husband has been acquiring? If he’s having memory problems, then she needs to help him sort out their food requirements.

And that's a very judgemental comment Calendargirl. It strikes me that perhaps the gentleman concerned may be developing some memory problems as he grows older. This could result in.him buying the same things over and over again as they are stored in long term memory. I think it is a good idea for husband and wife to both be involved in drawing up the shopping.list and insisting they both stick to it.

I have a slow cooker, called a Crockpot. It is excellent. I batch cook, every 4 or 5 weeks (everything lasts that long) - Bolognese Sauce, Chilli and Moroccan Lamb and put them in the freezer.

had to time it with the bin men, and yes, quite a bit went

So a lot got thrown away?

That’s shocking, chucking food away when people are using food banks.

I realised recently that I have been hoarding paracetamol. During the Pandemic I made sure I had a good supply but now there is no need.
They are kept in my handbag, bedside drawer and kitchen cupboard so doesn't look a lot till I add them all up.
If anyone is in need of painkillers you know who to ask!

Well, we have started on the sort out. We have done the freezers, ( we have a large upright and a fridge freezer) over the last few weeks, ( had to time it with the bin men), and yes quite a bit went. It was very satisfying getting it sorted. And today of course, to make room for the slow cooker.
Georgesgran, to be fair, I don’t think there is any hoarding of prescription medicines. There are five of us in the house, ( 3 adults 2 children) each with our own health complaints, It is more the ‘just in in case’ medicines, cough, tummy, head, etc etc.
His mother was a bit the same with food so I think that might be where it stems from.

I’m another who likes full cupboards, fridges and freezers but am religious with using stuff up in date order as I can’t bear throwing food away!

My shopping list is always written in front of the open doors so that I know what needs replenishing and what’ll wait til next time.

A gentle suggestion on recipes using what's in stock might not go amiss?

I probably could manage for a couple of months, just buying perishables as and when, but the OP sounds as if they’ve got enough for a siege.