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Do you have a ‘helpful’ husband?

(111 Posts)
MrsKen33 Wed 03-Aug-22 16:20:08

My DH is just like yoursPollyDolly Bless him

TillyTrotter Wed 03-Aug-22 16:19:58

You have taught your OH well PollyDolly. ?
.I have achieved nowhere near as much as you during our 44 years of marriage.

LauraNorderr Wed 03-Aug-22 16:19:37

My husband has a helpful wife and I have a helpful husband. We do play to our strengths and work together well most of the time.
Not being smug, just telling it like it is.

PollyDolly Wed 03-Aug-22 16:16:07

My OH is quite good with the laundry actually. He always. turns his jeans inside out for washing and I educated him in doing the same with tee shirts, sweaters, leggings etc. He quite likes doing the ironing although he hasn't quite mastered the art of controlling a viscose dress with a mind of its own. He makes an excellent job of stripping and remaking the bed. However, he does not dust or polish but he will run the hoover over the carpets so I can't complain. Might start hiring him out......any takers?

TillyTrotter Wed 03-Aug-22 16:14:18

PS I mean bedding and towels - I don’t have anything that is actual linen.

TillyTrotter Wed 03-Aug-22 16:13:39

DH is meticulous about his own washing (mostly golf-wear),
and I deal with my clothing and the household linen.
He leaves me to it and I prefer it that way.

Patsy70 Wed 03-Aug-22 16:13:36

There are a number of chores that I really do not want his ‘help’ with. I don’t even like him mowing the lawn when I’m away as he usually manages to b….r up the machine or make a complete mess of the grass. We’ve each got our own strengths and weaknesses.

Bellanonna Wed 03-Aug-22 16:09:45

DH hangs sheets by folding them across the line, so that the middle of the sheet is the bit that gets pegged. I have the edges upmost. Far easier to take down and fold. However he does fold the ones he pegs out and folds them beautifully, so not much to complain about really.

chloe1984 Wed 03-Aug-22 15:57:14

I think I wrote this !

foxie48 Wed 03-Aug-22 15:56:05

I just let my OH do the washing and I don't iron anything unless it's something "special" I think you should encourage him. Mine used to mix coloured with whites but I just bought another laundry basket and made sure they were kept separate. He sometimes hangs things out badly but I quietly rearrange anything as needed when he's not looking!

Quizzer Wed 03-Aug-22 15:32:51

Oh how I wish my DH would not be so helpful! This morning he came outside to ‘help’ me hang out a large basket of washing. This means he keeps spinning the rotary line just as I am pegging something on and stretching items such as T-shirts when pegging them himself.
While I was out this afternoon he had brought in the washing and put it away - fantastic! Except for the fact that he has put away all the things that need ironing (he never helps with that) and has carefully folded all my pants (who folds knickers?)and put them away in my underwear drawer. Great except that they are not quite dry! I am sure that he really thinks he is helping but most of the time it just makes more work.