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Does it put you off posting aything

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62Granny Sun 21-Aug-22 13:02:43

All most daily you see a post from either Gransnet or Mumsnet being used as a "story" by one of the newspapers or news feeds. Does this chance of being outed put you off posting things sometime? Or do you think it is a chance worth taking?

M0nica Mon 03-Oct-22 12:45:48

I cannot think of anything I might write on GN that would cause me any problem. One knows when one signs up that it is not closed site and is available for anyone to read. I haven't chosen a user name that immediately identifies me to anybody.

So what is there to worry about?

Actually if the papers chose to write up threads where we are responding to a subject in a way that older people are not expected to, I would consoder it a very good thing.

Our derisive response to that poster claiming a 15 year old had a wardrobe full of sex toys, for example. Nobody was shocked, worried about the younger generation, just laughed at the juvenile(whatever their age) poster.

lemsip Mon 03-Oct-22 10:22:58

StoneofDestiny

Nope. I don't read the 'news'papers that publish such trips. Plus, I'd never put anything on a public site I was ashamed of or worried would become 'news'paper fodder.

How did you find this thread from AUGUST....

henetha Mon 03-Oct-22 10:01:45

No one would be interested in the rubbish I write. And I'm wary these days as there are some scary people about.
"Teatime Trotsky's"... I love that grin

StoneofDestiny Mon 03-Oct-22 09:36:36

Nope. I don't read the 'news'papers that publish such trips. Plus, I'd never put anything on a public site I was ashamed of or worried would become 'news'paper fodder.

FannyCornforth Sat 27-Aug-22 03:41:14

LovelyLady

I’d never post something that could identify me. Pity as there is plenty of wisdom here.
Couldn’t, would take the risk.

It would be really easy to work out who I am.
In fact lots of people already do.

But I don’t understand why anyone would want to?!
Or what they would gain from it?

I’ve got absolutely nothing to hide.
I would never post anything unfavourable or personal about my wider family.

I like being open about things, and it helps me to conduct myself as I hope I would irl.

I do discuss DH (especially his health issues), but it doesn’t bother him one bit.

I did once post something about a young man that I taught, and a kind poster (*Sago*) suggested that I delete it, as it was easy to find his details etc online.

Ali08 Sat 27-Aug-22 02:07:11

Nah! Most of us use pseudonyms, and I doubt we're at risk of any of our posts/comments being so outrageous that being posted in media would harm anyone!

Smileless2012 Tue 23-Aug-22 11:33:47

I was thinking the same thing Yammy. Who'd of thought that anything seen here or on mumsnet would be considered news worthy!!!

Yammy Tue 23-Aug-22 11:06:44

The journalists must be a poor lot for resourcing information and news if they have to resort to reading Mum and Gransnet to get their scoops. For all they know, we might be men incognito.shock

LovelyLady Mon 22-Aug-22 22:04:04

I’d never post something that could identify me. Pity as there is plenty of wisdom here.
Couldn’t, would take the risk.

nipsmum Mon 22-Aug-22 18:37:33

Since i don't read newspapers I don't see anything that's been posted on GN. It doesn't stop me commenting.

hollysteers Mon 22-Aug-22 16:33:19

The shame! Trotsky, not Trostky…

Forlornhope Mon 22-Aug-22 16:16:10

LovelyCuppa

I think it’s a good reminder that once you post something on the internet you have absolutely no control over what happens to it next.

So right. I had a friend telling me she had read on Gransnet about a nectar fraud just like mine… H.mm, I thought, I must be careful what I’m bellyaching about if I want to enjoy the anonymity of Gransnet.

MaizieD Mon 22-Aug-22 16:03:50

hollysteers

Sussexborn
“Teatime Trostkys”. Brilliant??

Poor Sussexborn thought she'd joined an echo chamber...

hollysteers Mon 22-Aug-22 16:00:23

Sussexborn
“Teatime Trostkys”. Brilliant??

Gabrielle56 Mon 22-Aug-22 15:13:00

yes quite.If i wanted to be quoted on an online news sewer id write them, not us load of old gals on here!

inishowen Mon 22-Aug-22 14:17:26

I've seen this happening lately. Recently on MN there was a story about a neighbour objecting to teenagers enjoying their own garden. I saw it again as a newspaper article.

Sussexborn Mon 22-Aug-22 13:50:50

I had to look up Helen Skelton. I remember her vaguely from Countryfile. I know they want to be known publicly but it must be awful when you are publicly humiliated.

Gransnet started out as a very friendly and welcoming place but now your face, and politics, have to fit. I used to rise above it all but since being so unwell I find it better to keep a safe distance from the bigotry of the tea time Trotskys.

nanna8 Mon 22-Aug-22 13:42:27

That’s how it is these days, Theoddbird. Sadly. We just get the weekend papers for the crosswords and travel lift outs these days. Don’t want to read the trash they print about celebs etc.

Theoddbird Mon 22-Aug-22 13:40:34

I never read newspapers. Prefer to get news from trusted sources....

J52 Mon 22-Aug-22 13:27:46

dragonfly46

I am always amazed at people posting pictures - particularly of grandchildren knowing this forum is open to anyone.

Yes and give such details that it’s easy to know where they live and their daily comings and goings.

AnD1 Mon 22-Aug-22 13:09:49

I read posts on both but I don’t bother posting on anything now

Mrsgranny Mon 22-Aug-22 12:55:09

I was startled to find a post I had made picked up by my husband on his Google feed! I had thought I was posting in a secure environment, membership only etc. I hadn’t posted anything to worry about other than I had mentioned a dispute with a neighbour, so I asked admin to remove my post. Now I do think twice before posting.

FarNorth Mon 22-Aug-22 12:26:21

I don't think you'd be contacted Cossy.

Posting on a forum, under a pseudonym, is just like sticking up a poster in the town centre.
Anyone can see it and can do what they like with the information.

dragonfly46 Mon 22-Aug-22 12:21:15

I am always amazed at people posting pictures - particularly of grandchildren knowing this forum is open to anyone.

dogsmother Mon 22-Aug-22 12:17:12

Oh I have certainly seen. Multiple times.