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I blinked! then suddenly my DD was 40!!

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bikergran Fri 23-Sep-22 11:54:36

My younger dd will be 40 on Wednesday shock (we are off to the Spa) not the shop! lol

But I just thought "heck" 40!

So............. what happened when you "Blinked"

Calendargirl Fri 23-Sep-22 16:30:58

Thanks all.

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bikergran Fri 23-Sep-22 16:42:09

LOL some good ones! I remember my dear mum buying me a long blue wynceyette nightie and some bridget jones knickers! I thought it was a joke! but no! that was my 40th birthday present hmm

M0nica Sat 24-Sep-22 14:43:18

I blinked and DS was 50. Seeing him going grey, has also been a bit of blink moment because it started during all the COVID lockdowns.

DD will be 50 next year (we will be 80). Her menopause hasn't bothered me because she had some problems a few years ago, which were resolved with the insertion of slow release hormone coil, that means, the menopause is all done and dusted. So it has been more a medical problem than anything else.

SparklyGrandma Sat 24-Sep-22 14:52:00

Blink…my eldest DGD started Uni last year…

Gulp….

Grammaretto Sat 24-Sep-22 15:02:45

I'm on my way to a friend's 80th birthday party. I thought how did that happen I'm still a few years off but there's no escape.
Enjoy your anniversary *Calendar girl*grin

silverlining48 Sat 24-Sep-22 15:58:49

BLINk.....I am 74. That’s old, no longer can I get away with just being ‘middle aged’. Dds both mid 40s, it’s they who are middle aged.

Wyllow3 Sat 24-Sep-22 16:14:48

This blinking business is clearly dangerous.
Those lines in the mirror......nah....

Congratulations, Calendargirl

Kalu Sat 24-Sep-22 16:28:42

What a lovely post Calendargirl Many congratulations to you both??

What a blinking surprise to realise both DDs are in their 40s, eldest peri menopausal and, another surprise, both GDs are teenagers, eldest off to university next year. The biggest blinking surprise though is I am 72….What!??? Am I now an adult??

Callistemon21 Sat 24-Sep-22 17:40:22

The biggest blinking surprise though is I am 72….What!??? Am I now an adult? ?

I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up, Kalu ?

If I could sing there's be no problem

BlushingSheep Sat 24-Sep-22 17:49:25

I was going to say that I blinked and then I was in my 50s, but I might get lynched wink

Ladyripple Sat 24-Sep-22 18:03:20

I blinked and realised in a few weeks time I will have been a widow 25years.

I am 74 and have honestly lost 10years,no idea where they went.

Kalu Sat 24-Sep-22 18:08:11

Callistemon21

^The biggest blinking surprise though is I am 72….What!??? Am I now an adult?^ ?

I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up, Kalu ?

If I could sing there's be no problem

I am giving this growing up lark some serious thought. ?

FarNorth Sat 24-Sep-22 18:11:52

I read recently that the number of years from 1882 to 1952 is the same as the number of years from 1952 to 2022.

That really can't be right shock

Witzend Sat 24-Sep-22 20:23:34

mayisay

What about when your daughters start going through the menopause. That felt really wierd!

When I was coming up to 50, my mother horrified me by saying, ‘Oh, that’s good - you’ll be able to go on Saga holidays now.’
Over 20 years later dh and I still don’t feel we’re there yet - I do know a lot of people rate them very highly though. A widowed friend has enjoyed more than one solo long-haul holiday with them.

Deedaa Sat 24-Sep-22 20:32:34

A ninety year old aunt once told me "Wait until your daughter is 60 - then you'll feel old!" At the moment DD is 48 so I've got a way to go yet!

bikergran Sat 24-Sep-22 21:03:16

My dad is 87, he can't believe he has a dd who is a pensioner lol.

Davida1968 Sat 24-Sep-22 21:24:31

Having a baby at a very young age means being a mum to an adult of fifty-something while in your 60s..... One of the reasons (if this is you) never to hesitate to tell someone your real age!

Callistemon21 Sat 24-Sep-22 21:31:45

Davida1968

Having a baby at a very young age means being a mum to an adult of fifty-something while in your 60s..... One of the reasons (if this is you) never to hesitate to tell someone your real age!

Very comforting, Davida1968 but I was an elderly primigravada!

BigBertha1 Sat 24-Sep-22 22:06:41

I blinked and my life was gone.

Katyj Sun 25-Sep-22 10:16:30

It’s scary isn’t it. Mine are 42 and 39. Our oldest grandchild 20 ! But, I can’t believe we’ve been married 44 years ?where the heck did that go.

Cherrytree59 Sun 25-Sep-22 10:32:29

Yep Bikergran my son is 40 in December, how did that happen?
On the same day my beautiful grandson will be 8. He was a babe in arms.
All in the blink if an eye.

We moved in to this house, 5 minutes ago when I was 40.
The millennia when they told us the world would come to halt when computers blew up . (Actually 2020 and pandemic did that)

How did we get 2022 almost 2023

Sar53 Sun 25-Sep-22 10:44:24

I blinked, looked in the mirror and it was my mum looking back. How I miss her xx

My eldest daughter, 46, has been told she is going through the peri-menopause. I have two teenage granddaughters.

Many congratulations Calendargirl.

BlueSapphire Sun 25-Sep-22 10:59:11

My DS is 43; his partner (my DD-out-law), will be 50 soon; she was born the year late DH and I were married!
And DD will be 40 in January...

Hellogirl1 Sun 25-Sep-22 15:21:19

I blinked again and my eldest grandchild is 31!

rockgran Sun 25-Sep-22 15:35:12

I was advised some time ago to stop blinking!