You and your husband are older now than when you first starting having holidays with his parents, and realistically it’s time for a change for many reasons. The escalating drinking and bickering are just two reasons!
You sound as though you would be ok to see them, for a short while, but not for extended stays in your own home or a villa or wherever. There are some very reasonably priced mid week breaks or weekend breaks in this country, and perhaps the day or two beforehand they stay at a nearby hotel.
A 4 star hotel near us does some marvellous breaks and sometimes has rooms at £60.00 per double room on a Sunday or Monday. On other days or at peak times, their prices can go up to £460.00 per room, so choose your dates carefully! And Travelodge or Premier Inn Hotels have some very good deals.
Your break from your in laws doesn’t need to be all or nothing but you definitely don’t want to go on as you are! Hope it goes well, am sure it will. ???
Lame Limericks (but they are funny anyway) (