I don’t think you are being at all unreasonable to feel uncomfortable, but I don’t think that there is necessarily anything dodgy going on. It’s easy for people on discussion boards to advise others to leave partners, but they aren’t the ones who’ll have to deal with the fallout.
Why not tell him how you feel? You have a right to be heard. It might not have crossed his mind that his behaviour is hurting you. Some people are just slow on the uptake when it comes to things like that.
NEVER EVER HAVE I - Game 2 (Alphabetical)
July 23 Limerick (continuation of July 21)
apple trees not flowering this year. Anyone else?