Hello 😀 I hope this is in the right section. Couldn’t decide between here or in relationships.
I have had a disagreement with my Son and would appreciate some advice to resolve the matter.
Basically this came about because I asked when we would exchange Christmas presents. He said they were busy now up until Christmas so would have to be a quick drop off and then arrange another day to spend time together. I said that it was disappointing not to be able to see them and he was then very hostile. The issue seems to be that we are hosting his sibling and their family for Christmas Day and had not invited him. However him and sibling don’t get on so he knows it’s not possible for me to invite him if sibling is here.
Sibling alternates between us and in laws. So I said that Son should come on opposite alternate years but he says that he isn’t a back up plan and only wanted when sibling isn’t coming.
I feel like whatever I do he is always saying I am in the wrong. He is putting me in an impossible position. If I insist on inviting him then sibling won’t attend and then I could end up with no one attending every year. At least now I am guaranteed every other year. All I want is everything to be simple and all get along.
Seems like someone will be upset no matter what I do.
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