We’ve had separate bed rooms for most of our marriage and as someone coyly said, it hasn’t affected our ‘relationship’! In fact it’s improved it, as we both get more sleep and can turn over when we want and get up and go to the loo when needed without disturbing the other person.
My husband comes to bed at about 2.00 and he claims I snore (!) so it works well for us.
My husband has the master bedroom and en-suite and I have a similar sized room with a bathroom next door, only I use it and I like this bedroom better as it’s the sunniest. I’ve decorated my room and use more it as a study bedroom. We both have a king sized bed.
Well off families often had separate bedrooms and I suspect it’s why wealthier people have often lived longer!
We try to get 2 single or double beds on holiday and if the budget will stand it, we get two rooms or a suite!
Just do what you want, it absolutely doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks - apart, of course, from your husband!
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