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AIBU to find unreal threads annoying?

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fancythat Fri 31-May-24 13:42:32

I know some people find them amusing, funny, or that they pass some time harmlessly.

I find them annoying amongst other things. Irritating. I think ,hasnt someone got anything whatsoever, better to do in life?

I often wait and see if the op at least returns to a thread, before bothering to reply.

Doesnt help that I am not always right as to which threads are duds, and the handful which turn out to be real.

Just ranting really.

VioletSky Fri 31-May-24 13:49:35

I actually feel it ruins the whole forum when threads are full of comments about it not being real etc

Especially when it is a thread from the US and people comment as if people from the US aren't allowed on this forum... It is so unwelcoming and rude

People need to just choose to engage or not and report if needed... It's turning into a complete paranoia fest around here

SynchroSwimmer Fri 31-May-24 13:55:53

Anyway…..about that “Soviet themed wedding for tomorrow”….🤣

pascal30 Fri 31-May-24 13:58:47

SynchroSwimmer

Anyway…..about that “Soviet themed wedding for tomorrow”….🤣

let's hope they provide some chairs!!!!

soothed Fri 31-May-24 13:59:34

pascal30

SynchroSwimmer

Anyway…..about that “Soviet themed wedding for tomorrow”….🤣

let's hope they provide some chairs!!!!

grin

Smileless2012 Fri 31-May-24 14:01:30

hmm all those red flags SynchroSwimmer.

soothed Fri 31-May-24 14:03:23

Smileless2012

hmm all those red flags SynchroSwimmer.

I think this may be a satire piece or something - with a communist you would expect red flags, so maybe the joke is there?

I am a communist and sit on normal chairs, dont have giant posters of lenin and dont know any other commies who do that!

Namsnanny Fri 31-May-24 14:06:33

soothed

Smileless2012

hmm all those red flags SynchroSwimmer.

I think this may be a satire piece or something - with a communist you would expect red flags, so maybe the joke is there?

I am a communist and sit on normal chairs, dont have giant posters of lenin and dont know any other commies who do that!

Yes a red flag to highlight a red flag🤣
Fun though.

soothed Fri 31-May-24 14:07:27

Namsnanny

soothed

Smileless2012

hmm all those red flags SynchroSwimmer.

I think this may be a satire piece or something - with a communist you would expect red flags, so maybe the joke is there?

I am a communist and sit on normal chairs, dont have giant posters of lenin and dont know any other commies who do that!

Yes a red flag to highlight a red flag🤣
Fun though.

Not prime comedy, but cheered me up a bit =]

Smileless2012 Fri 31-May-24 14:08:16

My thoughts too soothed and why I didn't believe the OP; kept me amused for the length of time it took me to read it though.

Smileless2012 Fri 31-May-24 14:11:46

No, you are not being unreasaonable fancythat, occasionally I find them rather amusing but more often than not, I find them annoying.

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:12:12

SynchroSwimmer

Anyway…..about that “Soviet themed wedding for tomorrow”….🤣

I know!! grin

soothed Fri 31-May-24 14:12:50

Smileless2012

No, you are not being unreasaonable fancythat, occasionally I find them rather amusing but more often than not, I find them annoying.

I think this is one of the more amusing ones, but there have been worse on MN.

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:12:54

My trouble is, I am never 100% I am correct.

JaneJudge Fri 31-May-24 14:14:19

The poor woman has only been given a tiny slither of marzipan

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:15:51

VioletSky

I actually feel it ruins the whole forum when threads are full of comments about it not being real etc

Especially when it is a thread from the US and people comment as if people from the US aren't allowed on this forum... It is so unwelcoming and rude

People need to just choose to engage or not and report if needed... It's turning into a complete paranoia fest around here

But when to report?
I dont think I have ever reported anything.

Dont you think the fact that some seem to originate from the United St ates, a tad, um, odd?

I have been tempted to look up if there are many social media chat sites in the US, but thought, there has to be. Surely?

Would any of the people in the Uk think, aha, I wont post on a Uk social media forum, I will post on a US one?!

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:16:52

fancythat

My trouble is, I am never 100% I am correct.

Especially when say 10 people post on what I would think is a suspicious thread.
I then start to question myself.

soothed Fri 31-May-24 14:17:20

JaneJudge

The poor woman has only been given a tiny slither of marzipan

[Grin]

Smileless2012 Fri 31-May-24 14:19:56

IMO it depends on the thread, if it's amusing then leave it for others to read and be amused by rather than report.

Smileless2012 Fri 31-May-24 14:20:49

Doesn't look good for the 'wedding breakfast' does it JaneJudge.

Theexwife Fri 31-May-24 14:38:27

I think ,hasnt someone got anything whatsoever, better to do in life

They are participating in social media, the same as you. There are threads I find irritating or boring so I dont read them, I wouldn’t say they should not be written.

AGAA4 Fri 31-May-24 14:39:00

There are so many coming from the US about difficult DiLs that it's no wonder some of us are wary.
I believe most of us on GN genuinely want to help anyone with a real problem, wherever they come from, but when you have been hoaxed you start to doubt whether the problem is real. This is hard on those who do need help so it is annoying when people post a problem that isn't real.
Once bitten twice shy comes to mind.

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:53:22

Theexwife

*I think ,hasnt someone got anything whatsoever, better to do in life*

They are participating in social media, the same as you. There are threads I find irritating or boring so I dont read them, I wouldn’t say they should not be written.

Even if they mislead?

fancythat Fri 31-May-24 14:55:06

As well as what AGAA4 says?

At least I do think it can make people more wary of scams, the amount of unreal threads there are.

Jaxjacky Fri 31-May-24 15:11:49

Yes they are tedious and encourage my mischievous side to post something I shouldn’t, there is another one at the moment other than the obvious ones I’m suspicious of, I’ll sit on my hands.