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Behaviour at the Beauty Counter

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SuzyQqq Tue 18-Jun-24 07:38:24

I needed a new foundation and wanting to buy a replacement for one I had bought a while before from Este Lauder. I popped into the Mall at Cribbs Causeway near Brisol and headed to John Lewis who I knew were a stockist. This was the main purpose of my visit. On arriving at the counter in store there was only one assistant who looked like she was advising another customer. The customer was sat on one of their stools and having some eye shadows applied . I looked around the counter to see if I could see the foundation and shade I wanted but it didn’t seem to be out and I know they are sometimes kept behind the counter in their stock drawers. No other assistants were around and I hovered a while to see if the other lady’s consultation was coming to an end, but it seemed ongoing , so I moved a little closer and asked the assistant if I could just quickly check whether they had an item in stock . I thought given she was the only one available this would be acceptable and she may be able to point in me in the right direction whilst then carrying on with her customer. However before she could reply the lady seated on the stool said in a loud voice ‘ How rude ! Do not serve her. Carry on attending to me !’ The assistant looked a bit shocked but obviously didn’t know what to do . Neither did I . I hadn’t thought it was too unreasonable in the circumstances. But to avoid further confrontation I just turned and walked away . I went to Boots and bought another brand and then went home. Was I being unreasonable? Please can someone advise on beauty counter decorum and the do’s and don’ts in these situations? Thanks 😊

Struggling2do1 Sun 23-Jun-24 10:26:16

It’s funny how some people posting their opinions have pointed out how rude poor SuzyQqq was in such a rude manner.
I really don’t think that her behaviour was rude, it was reasonable given the circumstances.

Calendargirl Sun 23-Jun-24 11:07:48

Do we know the makeover was free? Or had the customer paid to have it done?

Nvella Tue 02-Jul-24 13:05:15

Sara1954

On my last visit to John Lewis, I had the incident at the Clinique counter, I was very dissatisfied with my service in the lingerie department, the shoe service was poor, but the electrical department beat the lot.
We were wanting to purchase a fairly large item, so we wanted to have a look, then order it online.
We asked the gentleman serving us, if he could jot down the details, he said, no, surely you can remember them.
I sound like a right moaning old bag, but I have always raved about John Lewis staff, and am sorry to see such a deterioration in their staff.

I think you are right - their customer service has really gone downhill. I asked a question about a dishwasher and the man serving me said “I don’t know” - no attempt to find out!

biglouis Tue 02-Jul-24 21:12:16

A few years ago I used to go into my local post office with 10 or more Ebay parcels. Needless to say the order came to quite a bit of postage. I always tried to get there early to be in the front of the queue. However sometimes I had to wait behind one or two other customers.

On one occasion the assistant asked if I minded her dealing with other people in the queue (and consequently leave off dealing with me). I told her that I objected. It was my "turn" and I was entitled to full service until my business was completed. The other customers (who were huffing and tutting) would just have to have a little patience. They had the same choice to get up early and be near the front of the queue. She never asked me again.

That post office now has a special counter for business customers but I now have direct pickup from my house.

Witzend Thu 04-Jul-24 08:42:48

PamelaJ1

Of course you weren’t being rude, the customer was.
If you want private, individual attention don’t go for free advice in a store. Pay and go to a salon.

I have very willingly been given free advice by the No. 7 assistant in Boots.

biglouis Thu 04-Jul-24 11:24:32

It must be infuriating in a small post ffice if you just want stamps and the person in the queue in front of you is taking a long time. Im thinking of people who go to the post office for the passport service and then keep others in the queue waiting. Or they are dithering about sending a parcel abroad.
However they had to queue in their turn and are entitled to the time they need to complete the transaction. Main post offices have a special counter for business transactions, bureau de change, and so on.