When one partner likes to be naked

Surely you knew about this before you lived together, if so, what’s changed?

Do you have to be in the garden at the same time as him?

A leopard in his late 70's is never going to change his spots.

Just don't sit on his favourite spot chair.

I think you are being unreasonable.

This can’t be news to you after all this time? Is he usually naked in the house? On holiday?

I would look at a supplier of products for people who are incontinent. You will find chair protector pads on the website. Your husband's garden chair could have a pad on the seat for hygiene reasons. I agree with you, it's not pleasant/hygienic having uncovered bottoms on furniture.

Put a towel on the chair.

Is this the front garden?

Let him do as he likes in the garden, and ask him in return to put on his boxer shorts before sitting down indoors.

Marriage is a matter of compromise, as often as not.

Well I wouldnt like it but if he’s been doing it for 8 years he’s not going to change now… how come you didn’t tell him 8 years ago ?
The mind boggles glad he’s not my neighbour guess the beans aren’t the only things dangling

Eeee ...some older people can be a bit ... drippy. I'd strenuously object. It's not just about looking. 🫣

Did you know that before you married him?? Yuck, that would have put me right off him and running for the hills!

Good gracious, Whatever are you moaning about. At least he is a man with a mind and not a prudish one. Embrace the day

I would just do something else and ignore him, especially if he gets sunburn. I used to do my housework in the niff when I was menopausal- couldn't bear getting sweaty!

If you are sure that you are not overlooked I am afraid you will have to live with this but do take the cushions off the cane chairs.

I agree with him, dont look. It is his garden too.

Agree too.

You could always buy him one of those gardening belts to keep his pruners, gloves and plant ties in.

I wouldn’t like my husband doing that, why can’t he just wear baggy shorts and have a bare top half.
I hope he wears plenty of sunscreen he wouldn’t want to burn any delicate areas 😂

It wouldn’t bother me, I’d join in if we weren’t overlooked.

Hmm...

Reminds me of an occasion many years ago when I was being shown round a house by the estate agent. Looking down from the bedroom window we saw the next door neighbour sunbathing naked.

It was a very warm day....

Years ago I had a very attractive friend who used to sunbathe naked. She lived in a fairly remote cottage in Cornwall with high hedges all round the garden, so there were no neighbours to see her. However the helicopters from Culdrose Naval base used to fly over every day!

JamesandJon33

Good gracious, Whatever are you moaning about. At least he is a man with a mind and not a prudish one. Embrace the day

What makes you think this is anything to do with his mind?

If he gets stung he will learn the hard way.