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Parents stop mollycoddling your children!

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ferry23 Mon 07-Jul-25 12:35:05

Well, my Mum did actually get me my first Saturday job - but in quite the opposite way meant here. She saw that her hairdresser was looking for a Saturday Girl, so she told the boss her daughter would do it, came home and told me I started the next Saturday!

And I can assure you I had no choice in the matter grin. (As it happened, I loved it).

mrsmeldrew Mon 07-Jul-25 12:30:40

I advertised on the village FB for a teenager aged 16+ to earn some pocket money - as you say just parents replied on their behalf. It's crazy.

I didn't bother - if they haven't got the impetus or motivation themselves forget it.

ViceVersa Mon 07-Jul-25 12:26:17

I've seen the same on my local FB groups too. My two always had jobs two - from delivering papers while they were still at school to working in local cafes and restaurants. I've even heard a couple of cases where a parent (in both cases, the mum) actually accompanied their child to a job interview!

Sago Mon 07-Jul-25 12:08:14

Our local FB page has daily requests for work for 16-19 year olds, these requests unfortunately are from the parents!

On principle I would not employ someone who relied on a parent to job seek.

My three always found jobs in the summer/weekends etc.
They knocked on doors/emailed/telephoned.

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