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Theatre tickets grief!

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mrsba Thu 18-Sept-25 19:46:00

Had an email from my DD saying she'd bought tickets for a talk I really wanted to go to.
BUT went to print off the email when I noticed 'Can't be used as entry' printed across the bottom, Hmmm what to do ?
My daughter had to open an App thingy to send them to me, which I had to then accept, I had to then open an App and then when I thought all was ok I got an email telling me to put the tickets in a Wallet!! I really hadn't got a clue and instead of enjoying the pre show meal I was all worked up about this stupid process
Any way got to the theatre and of course my rather small basic old phone couldn't get internetsad Stewards made me stand outside until near to tears I asked if I could talk to the box office staff. I produced the original email I'd printed out with the seat numbers on and they happily showed me to my seat! A lovely talk, but what a nightmare! So beware if anyone sends you tickets via Ticketmaster in an Email, life isn't simple anymore!

LifeOfBriony Sat 20-Sept-25 19:02:46

Expecting everyone to use a smartphone or an app sounds like discrimination on grounds of age:

www.gov.uk/discrimination-your-rights/how-you-can-be-discriminated-against

indirect discrimination - putting rules or arrangements in place that apply to everyone, but that put someone with a protected characteristic at an unfair disadvantage

Perhaps these companies could be challenged.

mrsba Sat 20-Sept-25 23:42:40

I wonder whether to bother moaning to Ticketmaster!

Nannan2 Sat 20-Sept-25 23:45:23

Im lucky in that i can do most things online i need.Anything im stumped by ive got 2 sons who can do techy stuff.(but all of us cant understand how my new ('smart') phone wont connect to our new printer! Could your daughter maybe have printed the ticket& got it to you? If you prefer your old phone& dont want to upgrade then a small tablet or kindle reader can get all this digital stuff downloaded to them too.And some are not expensive, either new or secondhand?

Deedaa Sun 21-Sept-25 00:02:57

So far we've been OK with theatre tickets -I've even managed to buy some myself, but parking is another matter. My daughter sometimes uses a parking app. She's a scientist with a PhD and is a lot more tech savvy than me, but I've seen her take over 20 minutes trying to pay for parking. I try to stick to car parks that require you to take an actual ticket when you drive in.

madeleine45 Sun 21-Sept-25 08:57:13

I ran one of the first computorised system of communication and trained over 200 staff throughout GB, and am perfectly aware of how to use internet at the level I am interested in. However I continue to fight for the choice of using phones or internet and being able to buy direct, use cash etc. It has recently changed but up to now it didnt matter if you were a millionaire with the latest phone available, there was no signal up swaledale and many dead spots up in other dales, so the only thing that worked was cash.

I also champion those who cannot afford a phone or whatever, and now get treated as second class citizens in such things as getting appointments. Around here there is a particular area where they are no doubt now losing money from a car park where you can only use your phone to pay. Very few people go there as it often does not work well and is just a hassle. One very sensible and well thought out company here is the cinema at Thirsk. There you can order tickets online if you wish , but they also have tickets available on the door too. So they have a regular group of people who keep them going all year and they recognise that and are not allowing something like Downton Abbey to be deluged by those who rarely go at all and would book ahead and take over. A very good attitude and I support them wholeheartedly. Unfortunately due to mostly my back problems, I no longer book ahead for things, as can only judge on the day , whether I am able to do something. That can be sorted with trips with friends where I will ring them before a certain time if I am unable to do something that day. However both very expensive if I pay for a ticket and cant go, and also that means that another person cannot use that place and when there are limited seats that is a shame. I also get cash to use on our local market, partly because I only want small amounts of various fruit and vegetable , but also because the stallholders also have to pay to use a card and so it puts prices up. As other people have said, for me , I much prefer to just take cash and simply buy a ticket and have no aggravation. Having worked in an airline etc I also insist on paper copies of tickets information etc, whilst I may also have it on my phone, I am far too aware of possibilities such as blank spots, losing or breaking phones etc, and having both just covers my back and makes for a calmer day. I always have a certain amount of cash on me for times when the systems go down and have had several occasions in a supermarket where familes with trollies full of items were stuck as the power went off at the tills and only cash payments were possible, where I was able to sail through. So just because someone chooses to use cash or have paper tickets does not mean they have no idea how to use internet, just they are more savvy to the vagaries of life. Its why some of us are still around!!

petra Sun 21-Sept-25 09:25:30

Gingster
Forget the idea of producing your iPad at the theatre. No offence meant but that will be too stressful for you unless you have roaming on your device.
You have two options.
If you are able to get to a library take your iPad and the very helpful staff will print the tickets for you.
Or get your daughter to transfer the tickets to her phone.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 21-Sept-25 10:02:44

I have just purchased tickets direct from the National Theatre.

When they emailed me back with confirmation and e-tickets (I was on my iPad) there was a little wallet icon beside them, tapped the icon and when I checked my wallet on my phone there they were.

Grammaretto Sun 21-Sept-25 10:21:48

It's not just an age thing. Some people are far more easily stressed than others.

During the Edinburgh Festival recently my son said he had a spare ticket to a show, where my DGD was performing. My DGS would meet me there and he had both tickets on his phone.
I got there really early and stood in a queue for half an hour. Others were going in but no sign of DGS.
I panicked and went to buy a new ticket. A kind person in the queue said I could have her spare.

I took a seat and saved a seat for DGS who appeared as it was starting. He said Dad had only given him one ticket.
Later I told my son this and he said rubbish there were 2 tickets on the Q code. Ofcourse there were. This boy aged 18 has just passed all his advanced highers with As.

No it's definitely not an age thing. Everyone finds it difficult.

I try to book things over the phone if possible.

TiggyW Sun 21-Sept-25 14:24:02

Get a smart phone! My Mum is almost 94 and has the latest model. Admittedly she doesn’t use all the functions, but it’s handy for her to have.

Northernsoulnanna Sun 21-Sept-25 16:09:29

Gingster...if the theatre has a box open during the day and you are able to get there.
Give reference number ask for paper tickets .
They should do this for you.(,our local theatre box office does)
Or ring them.
Ive now decided if option to collect tickets on the night this is what i do.
Most London theatres i have been too also have this option .

Realky Sun 21-Sept-25 16:34:32

Librarians and community centres sometimes run courses on how to use your smart phone.
I suggest you get a cheap one or a second hand one (refurbished) to try out. There is also a guide to mobile phones for Dummies, though I haven't used it. When I first got a Smartphone, I didn't realise you had to swipe it to answer it!

Grammaretto Sun 21-Sept-25 16:56:42

Why should we all have to rely on smart phones to live our lives?
I accidentally left mine on the plane when changing at Doha last year enroute to New Zealand.

Once I'd got over the initial shock and realised it had gone forever, I got on with my journey and spent a month with DS family without a phone. It was bliss!.
It is still possible, I'm happy to say.

whywhywhy Sun 21-Sept-25 23:40:28

I’m lucky that I have an IT expert in my son or I would be stuffed! It’s rubbish getting old with all of this modern technology!

Mojack26 Mon 22-Sept-25 07:47:36

Why did your daughter send them that way? She must know you have an old phone???? I suggest you get a nice new 21st century'smart' phone and avoid all that stress in future... glad you enjoyed your talk.... eventually.

mrsba Mon 22-Sept-25 11:17:21

my daughter is in her 40's and doesn't have a smart phone either, she booked tickets over the phone and they said she would get emailed, which she did and forwarded it to me BUT it said we couldn't use it as proof of entry,then the stress began!

Elfie27 Wed 24-Sept-25 05:41:59

It is so important to keep up with technology, no one needs to be left behind! If you are finding it difficult ask a younger family member or a friend who knows what to do to teach you.

David49 Wed 24-Sept-25 05:59:18

It’s not just theatre, sports venues too, most you can print but some now it’s only smartphone not just with a Q code but a moving Q code.
it’s all about identity and stopping swapping tickets, stopping known trouble makers at football grounds

JacquieN Sat 27-Sept-25 18:38:08

You should rethink boycotting Eventbrite. It’s very easy to use and it’s the way lots of small organisations manage ticketing for their events including many that are free. If you have the app on your phone it’s very easy to find your tickets and show them at the door. It’s very user friendly and no fees. Give it a go !!!