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Because I’m worth it!

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Quizzer Sun 11-Jan-26 10:51:29

Are we being conned by manufacturers into buying expensive beauty accessories because we ‘deserve’ them?
Make-up is a personal choice but electricals can be very similar. Do we buy because of the brand name or the fancy advertising?
I have a great hairdryer, not the cheapest, but bought because it is lightweight. It currently costs £35. The most expensive ordinary dryer at the same shop is £309 - is it that much better? The fancy dryers cost as much as £580, really?
Electric toothbrushes vary similarly from a well known brand at £25 to a staggering £800! I have a £25 one and my dentist always compliments me on how clean my teeth are.
The idea that if you pay more it must be better is a marketing con.

HelterSkelter1 Mon 12-Jan-26 06:06:33

Oh Helena Rubinstein. In my different life I worked in a large store in the training department and treated myself to some HR skincare. I shared a house with 2 other girls and after a party one night my HR products I kept on the bathroom shelf had disappeared. I was so shocked as I knew everyone there.

That was a lesson learned at 20.

I would love to know the product PP above says to avoid because of the chemicals. I use mostly Boots, Aveeno and Cerave moisturisers. And currently not a lot of make up. I must make an effort as I look better with some light foundation. Normally Boots.
One DD spends a lot on a particular brand, but she has a sensitive skin and it seems to suit her.
In my kitchen drawer I have a tube of L'Occitane hand cream. More expensive than others, but very good and I need such a little squeeze.
I have noticed that some women I know who have smoked a lot have very wrinkled skin. So smoking can be added to the list of what to avoid with sun damage at the top.

GoodAfternoonTea Mon 12-Jan-26 06:35:02

As I have combination to greasy skin, I need to use light products. Avene suits me. Middle priced and also just right for my skin type. I like Elemis too but it can be pricey. The price, for me, does reflect the quality.

RosiesMawagain Mon 12-Jan-26 06:54:46

butterandjam

M0nica

I believe in starting at the bottom and working up. Buy the cheapest product that does the job, and if it doesn't do it well, then go up a grade until you find one that does, then stop.

I don't put anything on my bottom. It's lasted pretty well, still as soft as a baby's.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

BlueBelle Mon 12-Jan-26 07:32:10

Don’t use any apart from a bit of light makeup (Rimmel or what’s on offer) only ‘beauty product I use are Savers face wipes 99p a packet
Haha
I m a lucky lady my dad had great skin and kept all his hair and most of his teeth until he died at 92 Its all genetics and the luck of the draw
(However I haven’t been lucky in other walks of life )

Sparklefizz Mon 12-Jan-26 08:00:56

M0nica

I believe in starting at the bottom and working up. Buy the cheapest product that does the job, and if it doesn't do it well, then go up a grade until you find one that does, then stop.

Good strategy, M0nica

MartavTaurus Mon 12-Jan-26 08:52:03

I'm a fan of L'Occitane products too for daily use. I am happy to pay that bit extra for smells that evoke nostalgia, summer or just happy days.
I also use NUXE. Their skin products are luxurious, but a bit oily.
I would say middle priced is me, and if I like something, I'll decide convice myself that "I'm worth it" and gleefully carry on.

NotSpaghetti Mon 12-Jan-26 09:05:59

This has morphed almost entirely into a cosmetics thread!
grin

MartavTaurus Mon 12-Jan-26 09:11:30

NotSpaghetti

This has morphed almost entirely into a cosmetics thread!
grin

And that's the power of the iconic slogan in the thread title!!

GrannyGravy13 Mon 12-Jan-26 09:15:53

I have a middle of the road hairdryer (Remington), however having used a DiL’s upmarket all singing and dancing Dyson one to dry GS’s hair I am rather tempted to treat myself…

TheWeirdoAgain60 Mon 12-Jan-26 10:07:14

My friend has a kettle cradle, because of rheumatoid and osteoarthritis, she can't lift the kettle properly and safely when it's full.

She went online as they don't sell them in the local hardware store, and she doesn't drive, and found one for about £9.00, a basic type. When it arrived, the flimsy box was battered... not known if it was the cradle company or somewhere in the post ... but it turned out to be a good cradle. But others came up for almost £1,000 just for one!

I totally understand what you're saying. Quizzer!

Lahlah65 Mon 12-Jan-26 14:02:00

I love my Dyson hairdryer - it’s definitely takes significantly less time to get a nice smooth finish on my bob, which always looks shiny and well conditioned. It is light too. I will buy another if this one packs up because I think it’s paying for itself.
But I definitely wouldn’t pay more for a toothbrush that then wants to link itself to an app to monitor my brushing! I bought one from Suri when there was an offer, because of their sustainability policies. I generally like to look at the science behind new/higher priced products.

I really dislike excess packaging on premium products. It doesn’t make me think that I’m getting better value - more that I’m wasting money on the packaging. And the cosmetic industry is way behind with double wall jars, and boxes.

Years ago, someone I knew who was training to be a nurse and was very interested in geriatric care described the problems that the older people often had with their skin. She said that we should care for our skin like we care for any other organ in our body and should never think that moisturising is a luxury. I have never forgotten that and always moisturise after the shower. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but I do prefer products with more natural ingredients. And it’s always nice to have a luxury one with a lovely smell for when I’m going out - they are permanently on my Christmas present list!

KathleenE Mon 12-Jan-26 14:05:46

I use aqueous cream for moisturising- very cheap and works for me

HelterSkelter1 Mon 12-Jan-26 14:10:34

Not too much washing, bathing or showering is better for elderly skin as well as moisturising.

Witzend Mon 12-Jan-26 14:11:33

SORES

Years ago! I recall Estee Lauder being interviewed, asked
why her make up, perfumes were so expensive, her candid
response was that she believed if it was all more costly than
any other, customers would believe it to be superior and buy
for the snob value.
EL products were of consistently good quality but you are right, a marketing con, which worked, heard here straight
from the source.

Does anyone remember Youth Dew? My glam paternal gran would spray it lavishly, ‘to no avail’ as Mum would murmur waspishly.

OMG, Youth Dew! In my house-sharing days there was a girl who used to douse herself in the stuff every time she was just nipping to the shops.
Enough to give anyone a raging headache!

Dodo43 Mon 12-Jan-26 14:13:54

I found a lovely light moisturizer at the RHS Gardener's World Exhibition a few years ago. It's made with all natural products and it's light on the skin, absorbing well. It's not cheap but it's not ultra expensive either. I used it everyday and a pot lasts for ages. I continue to buy it online.

Abcdefg Mon 12-Jan-26 14:15:02

I still wear Youyh Dew every day. My girls say it's old lady perfume, I don't care I am an old lady

RachelD Mon 12-Jan-26 14:54:45

I use fewer face and body creams than I used to.

For the last 6 months I have drunk a tablespoon of high quality olive oil every day. After about 3 weeks I noticed the difference to my face and hair - skin was softer and hair shinier. I no longer have dry flaky skin on my legs.

The olive oil has to be a good quality, extra virgin, grown on volcanic soil. The one I use costs about £23 per bottle, which is pricy but costs a lot less than the face creams /skin creams I used to use.

KKOB Mon 12-Jan-26 14:58:59

Here's a good example of inflated prices because of the brand name. Keyrings made from paracord sell for £4.50 each on Etsy. However if you buy similar from Miu Miu they're £400 each.

Ashcombe Mon 12-Jan-26 15:04:12

Good for you, Abcdefg! It's been my perfume of choice since 1970 when it was bought for me. I was 20 then and still love it now.

cc Mon 12-Jan-26 15:10:48

I bought a slightly more upmarket OralB electric toothbrush and, by shopping around, found I could get a set of two for what was effectively the usual price for one. What I didn't realise was that the toothbrush heads were much more expensive than the normal ones and that they wear out very quickly.

labazs Mon 12-Jan-26 15:13:15

i know my granny had lovely skin right up until she died. the main thing was she used rain water to wash with and Camay soap.
i rarely use cosmetics and my skin is fine

MollyNew Mon 12-Jan-26 15:32:29

I love my Dyson hairdryer, which I've used for about 3 years. It's kinder to my hair than a traditional dryer and I wouldn't change it.

I have rosacea so I've worked my way through many different skincare brands. I'm not swayed by price or packaging, once I find something that my skin doesn't react to, I stick with it. Some are basic but others are more premium, it's just about the formulas and ingredients. I use cleanser from one brand, moisturiser and serum from another and sunscreen from yet another. If I could get away with using Aldi or Boots own, I would do.

My dental hygienist always advises me to use an electric toothbrush, which I do, but she says you don't need to spend £100+ on a bluetooth one.

grannybuy Mon 12-Jan-26 15:36:55

I have used Boots Perfect and Protect products for about twenty years. I’m in my late seventies, and don’t have wrinkled cheeks, but do have around my mouth, probably caused by sagging jowels. I’ve had no problems with these products, but it’s hard to tell how effective they’ve been, as we don’t know how our skin would have been without them, or with different ones.

lazydays Mon 12-Jan-26 15:37:40

I agree with all that’s been said
However the other side is luxury, not the products themselves but the general feel of the packaging and the aesthetics.
I’m now in my 70’s and can afford the treats so why not buy the products because they simply look or work better, by work I don’t mean the product itself but a gorgeous range of beauty products that enhance my bathroom and are nicer to utilise.
Would I have thought like this years ago of course not,
I just think the point is to be aware of the cons and don’t believe the hype.

Stillness Mon 12-Jan-26 15:42:12

I take no notice of the marketing since I learnt about all the chemicals and microplastics in make up. I’m in the process of changing to products that contain natural ingredients now.