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ferry23 Tue 03-Feb-26 16:41:24

I made arrangements to have my boiler serviced and a basin tap replaced today, plumber said he would be here around 9am.

I've used said plumber before. He installed a new gas supply for me last year when I had a gas leak. He also installed a new boiler and he's done a couple of small jobs for me since then. I've also recommended him. So he's had a fair amount of business from me, but happy with his work, had no problems.

After I finished in the bathroom this morning I emptied the cupboard under the basin and cleared the surface of the vanity unit so he could get to the tap. I also made sure he could get to every radiator as he would probably want to bleed them.

9am came and went. At 10.15 I phoned him, I had to leave a message but just basically asked if there was a problem and was he coming. At 1pm I got a message saying he had van trouble but he could come tomorrow morning.

I was a bit annoyed he didn't bother to tell me but agreed to tomorrow. Of course everything I'll need in the bathroom tonight and in the morning is all over the place.

He's just messaged me asking if I can pay him in cash.

First of all I don't know how much it will be. Secondly it's gone 4pm. I don't keep massive amounts of cash in the house. I'm struggling with my mobility right now. The nearest cash machine is 3 miles away.

I told him I don't have cash in the house, I have difficulty getting out alone so not to worry, leave it for the time being.

He's now messaged me to say he'll be here and will accept bank tranfer (as normal by the way).

I don't think I was unreasonable in refusing to go and get cash - or was I?

petra Wed 04-Feb-26 16:54:29

Basgetti

No of course not! Just seems odd that a registered plumber would ask for cash.

Cash is still legal you know.

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 17:01:50

petra

Basgetti

No of course not! Just seems odd that a registered plumber would ask for cash.

Cash is still legal you know.

Perhaps he needed cash to pay his cleaner!

MickyD Wed 04-Feb-26 17:02:13

No I don’t think OP was being unreasonable at all. Why would you go through the discomfort and absolute inconvenience of getting cash out for someone unless they are in a worse position than you. He is not! He wants cash. In this situation it seems he’s being selfishly greedy.
We always have £1000-£2000 in the house which covers window cleaning, a tonne of coal, oil tank filled, groceries etc. but if I’d have been let down by a tradesperson (and I happen to think hthis one made up the van story) I’d be reluctant to do him the favour of paying cash.

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 17:03:36

😲

WithNobsOnIt Wed 04-Feb-26 18:43:45

Maybe he is not as nice as you think.
He seems to be taking advantage of you as a soft touch.

Builders are notorious in lacking integrity, being on the fiddle and wanting cash in hand. Take what they say with a large pinch of salt.

Don't give him any cash. And always ask for a receipt which itemises the work he has done before paying up. He needs to guarantee his work.

Is he part of some kind of Builders Organisation?

As for his van breaking down. That's an old excuse. He was probably doing a new job or finishing a job that was more lucrative than yours.

My friend once had to work around a builder whose whole life was based around picking up his kids from private school a no d showing off in his really expensive van.

That's when he wasn't arranging his latest long haul holiday to the Caribbean.

Give him the boot.
🫵🦨🥾

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 18:50:40

Pretty sure he could pay his cleaner by bank transfer, Allira.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 04-Feb-26 18:51:33

WithNobsOnIt wow!

I can only assume by your post that you have had a problem with a builder/s, plumbers, electricians in the past.

Not wise to tar them all with the same brush

RosiesMawagain Wed 04-Feb-26 19:35:47

MickyD

No I don’t think OP was being unreasonable at all. Why would you go through the discomfort and absolute inconvenience of getting cash out for someone unless they are in a worse position than you. He is not! He wants cash. In this situation it seems he’s being selfishly greedy.
We always have £1000-£2000 in the house which covers window cleaning, a tonne of coal, oil tank filled, groceries etc. but if I’d have been let down by a tradesperson (and I happen to think hthis one made up the van story) I’d be reluctant to do him the favour of paying cash.

£1- 2K in cash in the house??!!!
I’m unlikely to have £50.
I pay everything by bank transfer/direct debit/card.
In fact the £20 I have finally spent out of my purse had been there since before Christmas.

petra Wed 04-Feb-26 19:39:58

Basgetti

Pretty sure he could pay his cleaner by bank transfer, Allira.

It was a joke.

friendlygingercat Wed 04-Feb-26 21:12:21

I have been involved in the antiques trade for many years and still sell a few bits on Ebay or direct to dealers. Cash is still widely used ifor face to face transactions n the trade although most dealers now use a card reader at fairs, I would still ask for a discount for cash.

A few days ago I called a taxi to my relative. As I got in the driver asked if it were cash and I said yes. He set the meter at $3.50. My relative always pays by card and told me the driver routinely sets it at £5 for the identical journey. So he is paying £1.50 more at the onset.

win Wed 04-Feb-26 21:52:06

argymargy

I don't like being asked for cash, as it always makes me think someone is avoiding their taxes. I don't keep more than £10 in the house so it's always a faff to go & get some. If a tradesman is reliable and trustworthy I will give them cash but I think you were right to stick to your guns in this instance.

I would never pay a workman in cash, where is your workmanship guarantee without paperwork, would he still have given you a receipt, I doubt it, he was probably trying to avoid paying tax on it. You was not unreasonable at all.

MT62 Wed 04-Feb-26 22:02:00

Basgetti

Presumably your plumber is Gas Safe registered, Ferry? Did you check? If not, installing a new gas supply is illegal.
I’m asking because it seems odd that a registered plumber would ask for cash.

That isn’t true as I know someone who paid cash & got a certificate. Like someone on here said, it’s up to the tradespeople to declare their earnings.

25Avalon Wed 04-Feb-26 22:07:03

Only pay cash if it suits you like he’s offering money off which he wasn’t. You may need proof your boiler was serviced if ever you need to make a claim on the insurance if it breaks down. I am surprised you had to contact him when he didn’t arrive and he didn’t contact you first. It’s annoying to plan your day round someone coming and they don’t arrive. Mind you trades people often seem to let you down these days.

25Avalon Wed 04-Feb-26 22:15:42

Btw he may not be VAT registered so is not guilty of tax evasion and can issue an invoice.

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 22:31:03

petra

Basgetti

Pretty sure he could pay his cleaner by bank transfer, Allira.

It was a joke.

Thanks petra 😁

M0nica Wed 04-Feb-26 22:31:49

25Avalon

Btw he may not be VAT registered so is not guilty of tax evasion and can issue an invoice.

You still pay income tax on the ensuing income whether you are VAT registered or not.

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:38:50

Sorry, Petra 🤦‍♀️.
Hard to tell sometimes.

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 22:42:19

Basgetti

Sorry, Petra 🤦‍♀️.
Hard to tell sometimes.

It was me who said it 😂

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:55:39

I’m obviously having a great evening 🤣

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:56:24

(In my defence, I’m quite new. I’ll get my coat ……)

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 23:05:13

Basgetti

(In my defence, I’m quite new. I’ll get my coat ……)

Pyjamas and cocoa time 😴

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 23:05:57

Ps I'll pay for our cocoa
Cash ok?

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 23:08:59

Allira

Ps I'll pay for our cocoa
Cash ok?

😂

Graphite Wed 04-Feb-26 23:37:38

That he usually wants a bank transfer suggests that this request was a one-off. Perhaps whoever fixed his van as an emergency job, maybe a local garage rather than an AA/RAC call out, would only do the job quickly for cash and he said he’d pay them the next day? Maybe he negotiated a better price for cash? Who knows?

Maybe the job came to more than the limit that one can take from an ATM. If he’s local and the nearest ATM is 3 miles away for you then it will be similar for him.

There could be any number of reasons why he asked for cash not necessarily connected to tax evasion.

I can assure people that when people are suspected of tax evasion, HMRC employs techniques which easily reveal whether someone is doing a cash jobs which haven’t been declared.

The fact is that a lot of older people do keep a lot of cash in the house in sums that would far exceed the costs of a boiler service and a tap replacement, say £200.

He probably has other clients who do pay him in cash. Whatever the reason for him needing cash, he was probably taking a punt that you might be able to pay him that way this time but you were perfectly within your rights to say no.

Belardo Wed 04-Feb-26 23:41:46

I agree that it's not always convenient to have a lot of cash available, nor can it feel particularly safe to do so. As the OP stated, there's also the question of not knowing just how much they need to pay. Also, how trustworthy are the workmen? Is it a good idea to let them know you keep quantities of cash in the house? Most reliable and honest tradesmen will be happy to accept a bank transfer or even a cheque.