A few years ago, while living away from home, I became close to a single mother and have been a supportive presence in her and her child’s life — a bit like an honorary grandparent.
Over time I’ve helped in many ways, practically and emotionally, and have always been happy to do so.
This weekend, I asked her to come with me to an event as I wanted some company. She agreed, but on the morning of the event messaged to say she’d arranged to meet a friend later so would rather skip afternoon event and I could just meet them later, adding I could still go alone if I wanted.
I felt quite hurt, especially as this isn’t the first time she’s let me down. I don’t feel I ask for much in return.
I’m not someone who gives up easily, and I feel sad for her child, who I’ve grown close to, but I’m starting to feel taken for granted. She has also fallen out with many other friends over time.
Am I expecting too much, or is it reasonable to step back from this friendship.
