Crochet

I once read that things like crochet, knitting and embroidery are ‘women’s time made material’. I like that.

A friend made a crocheted throw (squares) for her DGD, when the latter was at Uni. Her DGD loved it, and was the envy of her own Uni friends. Now she has her own home and it's still in use....

Can knit and sew but just cant get my head around crochet. Have paid to go to a learn crochet session but i didnt learn. Have had so many people sit with me and show me, you tubed it and have now decided that to crochet is coming off my bucket list. Suppose you cant do everything you want to in this life

I am not good at crochet but I can make a throw. I made my own years ago when I was newly wed. I have decided to make a throw each for my sons and daughter. I think it'll be a colourful reminder of me when I'm no longer here. I know they'll smile when they use it and it's giving me a lot of pleasure making it.

What beautiful items on this thread! I'm a very basic knitter (can't crochet at all) and just for a break from making the easiest premature baby hats and jackets I'm currently doing a jigsaw of the Titanic. Now there's a real waste of time for you!

Carry on crocheting, Poppy2. It's a lovely, soothing, and very creative hobby.

Well, to turn that old 'mum phrase': If they told you to jump off a cliff, would you?
I seriously hope not!
Whatever hobbies people have (and my goodness don't we hear about a lot on here!), as long as they can afford it and it does no harm, it's no one else's business.
I wonder if you are asking them for approval, and they really don't like what you are making? You might feel happier if you join a group (I am in Loving Hands) where others can admire and appreciate your work.

I made this for my step daughter she loved it. It helped me give up smoking as it took my mind off it

Take no notice of what others think. If you are doing something that gives you pleasure, then carry on doing it!

I made my granddaughter a heavy throw for her bed. She is Asperger and loves the weight of this cover. Something which will remind her of how much I love her when I am gone.

Spending time relaxing pursuing your hobbies are never a waste of time, they are good for your wellbeing.if you have the time and the equipment and the inclination, then just ignore your daughters

Just wondering what your daughters do to fill their time. Are they always on their phones, binge on Netflix or do they participate in outside activities to keep healthy?
I learnt to crochet about 2.5 years ago at a weekly crochet class and still attend for the social aspect. It gets very noisy and I only take something with that doesn't require a lot of concentration. I prefer to do small things and am currently making a little snowman head which I found on Repeat Crafter Me although I have made a mouse, baskets, crochet hook rolls, jumpers and lots of other things. It's never a waste of time, especially if you know it will go to a charity and help someone.

Keep going. I don’t do it myself and as a result, I have just bought a blanket made of crocheted squares, off ebay because they are so lovely. I’m sure you could sell them

As a comparatively new crocheter, I urge anyone to crochet them together (at least in strips) as you go; having 200 hexagons to put together does not encourage completed tasks! And using random old scraps of different yarns (different ply wools with acrylics) can lead to washing disasters, a real shame after all those hours of love.
Local retirement homes and hospices will always be pleased to receive donations of shawls, lap blankets and twiddle blankets and muffs.
For those of you who long to learn crocheting (I was that woman a few years ago, dear reader), I learned at local craft shop, but local librares have crochet groups who always welcome new unskilled members - you only need chain, doubles and trebles! And YouTube is great for learning to crochet.

Well, at least you know who not to give crocheted presents to, don't you.

For goodness sake, tell your daughters to mind their own business. You like crotcheting, so you do it. I play with my dolls' house.

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I made this blanket/ throw 5 years ago, and DGS evidently found it comfy.
This summer, I crocheted a bag from left overs, and it has been very useful.
Carry on crocheting and enjoy yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks.

Why do your daughters do this to you? They should surely be pleased that you have an interest and should encourage you.

Of course it's not a waste of time. You are doing something creative that you enjoy. And will have something beautiful when you have finished. Spending lots of time on social media is a waste of time (I waste too much time that way!) but making some think isn't.

I've just taught myself to crochet from YouTube and am sitting next to DD who has my first attempt at a small blanket over her knees to keep her warm.

Do what you want to do!

Wow! @kathyd.
That’s a fabulous blanket.
Great colours.
Which yarn did you use?

Poppy2. YES. Your interests? your choice.

Crocheting keeps me awake if I’m trying to watch something on television!

I think you have found the answer you were looking for Poppy. Crochet and knitting are lovely, creative activities. They are also great for reducing stress and anxiety as others have said.
Kathyd, your crochet work is wonderful!

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I knit, crochet and sew. Always something to do!

Tell your daughter that your crochet is part of your therapy. It keeps your brain and hands occupied and helps to stave off anxiety and depression. I also knit cook and bake. Not for myself always,but for charity. I spent quite a bit if time this week baking cakes for my granddaughters brownie camp this weekend. Also the staff in the place my daughter works love a little bit of home baking with their tea and coffee at break times.

You can make amazing things with Amigurami once you get the hang of it. I would recommend Amigurami Today and Pinterest for free patterns!