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Kids gifts to Grandparents

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Grammy666 Fri 22-Apr-22 17:37:55

Does anyone else feel the same as I do about handmade stuff being given to us from our Grandchildren ? At first I was delighted and put up the paintings, plonky wonky pottery plates, and other attempts but after a few years the novelty has worn off and I have to pretend how much I love these things .. Just give me some soap, second hand book, charity shop gift but please I don't want rubbish , am I odd ?

Antonia Mon 25-Apr-22 17:20:41

I love getting anything the grandchildren have done. We have pottery plates with their handprints on them, and one of my favourite pieces of artwork is a fabric collage that my five year old granddaughter made for me. Her mum cut out the pieces but she stuck them all to the frame herself.

Grammy666 Mon 25-Apr-22 11:54:16

Oh dear .. I seem to be very odd ... btw ... they have their own money and I still say I would MUCH rather have a recycled gift from a Charity shop than wonky plate.. a gift chosen by the kids on a subject they know I love .. I can't see the objection .. we are not all dotty Grans in a Rocking chair gazing lovingly at
shelves of whatever .. Also I wonder if the kids would be pleased if I gave them a knitted scarf complete with holes and dropped stitches ....

Chewbacca Sat 23-Apr-22 10:22:25

am I odd?

I think so yes. Like pretty much everyone else on this thread, I too treasure the wonky pictures, the "models" they've made that collapse as soon as you look at them, even the dubious looking biscuits are accepted with delight and gratitude - because they've been made with time, love and care for ME. The little pottery house, with a red heart above its door, was made for me by DC 33 years ago and still stands proudly on my kitchen windowsill. In a fire, that would be my first rescue.

MawtheMerrier Sat 23-Apr-22 10:09:15

I love the wonky plates too but also treasure a fridge magnet GS1 brought back from Crete , it must be 4 or 5 summers ago when he was perhaps 6 or just 7.
The children had each been given a small amount of money to spend in a shop before flying home and GS was very quiet about what he had spent his money on
Later in the month when I was visiting he shyly presented me with this, still in its paper bag and D admitted she had no idea he had bought it. ?

ginny Sat 23-Apr-22 07:59:30

I love all the wonky plonky things too.
Notes , drawings, hand made cards with all the wrong spellings.
My eldest Grandson is nearly 20 and I still carry ( in my handbag) the brightly coloured little clay heart that he gave me when he was three.

Sara1954 Sat 23-Apr-22 07:42:51

Well you have to be selective, you can’t keep every drawing and painting.
I do have things that they’ve made or given me, but I think you can be a bit too sentimental.

Spice101 Sat 23-Apr-22 05:59:21

I don't expect gifts from my grandchildren but if they want to make something for me I'm delighted. Those "gifts" stay until the next one comes along.

grandMattie Sat 23-Apr-22 05:50:09

I absolutely love the self portraits my DGDs gave me on my 70th birthday. As for the cross stitch picture “best grandma ever” made by my DGS when he was about 6 is one of the best presents ever. Love their cards, T-shirts, etc.

Whiff Sat 23-Apr-22 05:14:51

How can you call something your grandchildren has made for you rubbish. I love everything my grandson makes for me because he has made it with love . I had horrible in law's everytime my children made them something they would say thank you and throw it away . It upset my children. My parents on the other hand keep everything from all 5 of their grandchildren. We only got rid of them when clearing out their house after they both died.

Be grateful you have grandchildren who love you .

Marydoll Fri 22-Apr-22 22:04:39

I still have the pottery three legged tortoise, DS1 made me, he is now forty two. I could never get get rid of it.

Ali23 Fri 22-Apr-22 21:55:44

I just love the things that my granddaughters make, write or draw. The best gifts ever!

Millie22 Fri 22-Apr-22 21:49:48

I love my handmade cards and gifts. They are not rubbish.

Galaxy Fri 22-Apr-22 21:46:57

I still have the snowman made out of marshmallows that my son made in nursery. As you can imagine it has solidified and gone a bit wonky looking. Its still makes me cry and when I look at it I can hear the words his nursery teacher said when she gave it to me.
So yes you are a little weird grin

Jaxjacky Fri 22-Apr-22 21:22:15

Our granddaughter, now 14, gave us both one of these about 8 years ago, we keep them in our purse/wallet.

ayse Fri 22-Apr-22 21:17:47

I keep the best ones and I’ve started keeping them in memory books for them. I love all the wonderful messages of love.

I’d much rather receive just a card made for me than a present but chocolate is always welcome ?

Grannybags Fri 22-Apr-22 21:10:54

Wonky hand made stuff works for me every time

GrannyGravy13 Fri 22-Apr-22 21:04:23

Odd handmade gifts from children and grandchildren are absolutely irreplaceable and worth more than anything bought.

Sara1954 Fri 22-Apr-22 20:45:22

I keep a few special things.
Nursery teacher gave me a handful of youngest granddaughters drawings today when I picked her up, I dropped them into the recycling in the way in.

lixy Fri 22-Apr-22 20:23:19

Hardest part of moving house was leaving behind the bird box GS made and the bug hotel they spent hours constructing.

Callistemon21 Fri 22-Apr-22 19:55:45

The wooden token that DGD made me for Mothering Sunday a few years ago is still hanging in the kitchen.
Apparently she insisted she didn't need help with spelling my name (yes she did!) but I prefer her spelling ?

Blondiescot Fri 22-Apr-22 19:51:38

Definitely odd. I think most grandparents would love to have gifts made by their grandchildren, however 'wonky' they might be.

LOUISA1523 Fri 22-Apr-22 19:15:33

Yes you are odd ?

Witzend Fri 22-Apr-22 19:14:28

I love anything they’ve made.
And this has been on the front of our fridge for ages.

crazyH Fri 22-Apr-22 19:03:47

I love their little handmade stuff - I have kept a few in my memory box. I have my daughter’s little dress (she is 52) and a couple of things of my sons ….

Esspee Fri 22-Apr-22 18:55:01

I love all the items made by their little hands. I couldn’t care less about items purchased unless they are purchased by them with their money and thought for what I would enjoy e.g. wildflower seeds.