DS and family live some distance so would spend one week of each school holiday with us when the DGC were small.
I started with DGD when she was about 4 and we made a simple hans sewn skirt for a favourite dolly. When she was about 5 we started using a sewing machine. She made a simple, elastic waisted skirt for herself, which she wore a lot, and we went from there. At 11 we all clubbed together to buy her a sewing machine and she was away. i would be sent pictures of her in tops and trousers she made herself.
She is now 17 and still uses her sewing machine and skills to alter and embellish clothes. I tried to do the same thing with DGS, but he just wasn't interested.
I do not think it is a gender thing, Our family split broadly in two. Those who are instinctive doers, always with a project to hand, like DH, DD and DGD, who now cooks, does DIY, always redecorating her bedroom, those with no interest at all, like DS and DGS and I am in the middle very kee to do things but cack handed.