Benina......Tricky! I reckon it would be an idea to do some homework where your family is, about what's available in your current interest areas, and the ones you would like to develop. eg art classes, walking groups, book groups etc Also if you spend time in the local shops and get chatting, you can get a feel as to whether it's a friendly spot or not. Voluntary work is always a good way to meet lovely people. Renting definitely great idea.
Also, it's not so far that you and your close friends can't visit back and forth.
Why not just have a little adventure?
Good luck with your decision, and I hope the pluses and minuses find the right balance!
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