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MrsM Thu 27-Oct-11 21:05:26

was going to have a second grandchild
now not sad

I'll be there for my daughter
would like forum hugs from my contemporaries

life's bloody not fair, is it?

jogginggirl Thu 27-Oct-11 21:10:25

Massive hugs MrsM and to your daughter and family .........and many, many more xxxxx Honestly, no, life is not fair - but sending loving thoughts to you all xxx

glassortwo Thu 27-Oct-11 21:14:24

MrsM sending you and your daughter hugs, life is cruel xx

Jacey Thu 27-Oct-11 21:24:40

Hugs to you and your daughter ... and no life isn't fair for so many of us sad

lucid Thu 27-Oct-11 21:25:32

Big Hug is not fair.

gracesmum Thu 27-Oct-11 21:26:35

Hug from me too - double pain for you - for your daughter's loss and your own. Let nobody say "Oh she can always have another" - life is bl***y unfair and every loss whether an early or late mis, or a stillbirth or neo/perinatal death is 100% tragedy to the people concerned. sad

granto7 Thu 27-Oct-11 21:35:26

Big hug Mrs M. So sorry.

MrsM Thu 27-Oct-11 21:41:21

Thank you all
I appreciate it

bikergran Thu 27-Oct-11 22:18:37

take care both you and your family...

Sbagran Thu 27-Oct-11 22:32:09

There are no sensible words - just sending my love, thoughts, prayers and very big hug to you and your darling daughter - devastating.

Ariadne Thu 27-Oct-11 22:53:29

Lots of love to you all.xxxx

kittylester Thu 27-Oct-11 22:58:34

So sorry MrsM there are no words and, as a Mum, you want to make it better but you can't. Our youngest daughter has had 2 (maybe 3) early miscarriages and I felt so useless. Take care both of you.

Annobel Thu 27-Oct-11 23:09:54

Hugs to you and all your family thanks

grannyactivist Fri 28-Oct-11 00:09:13

MrsM, I'm so sorry. It's a painful loss for all concerned. sad

Twobabes Fri 28-Oct-11 00:26:20

MrsM, I'm so very sad for you and your daughter and family. Sending love and hugs XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Faye Fri 28-Oct-11 03:39:51

I'm so sorry MrsM...hugs for you, your daughter and family. xxx

nannym Fri 28-Oct-11 06:42:21

So very sorry for you and your family. Love and hugs xxxxx

Notsogrand Fri 28-Oct-11 08:36:26

I'm very sorry MrsM. Hugs and thoughts for you all at this sad time, x

Grumpyoldwoman Fri 28-Oct-11 09:28:59

I am so sorry MrsM to hear your news.
It is so very hard to see your child suffering and not being able to take her pain away..after all that is our job. I have had to support my eldest daughter through a miscarriage and a stillbirth and I almost felt a failure not being able to ease her pain.
I am very good at ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) ...had plenty have a massive one from me. You need one for yourself as you will be the one giving all the hugs.
Lots of love to you xxxxxxxx
btw ...a lot of people call me Mrs M ....from my teaching days.

bagitha Fri 28-Oct-11 09:44:20

Know what it feels like, MrsM! So sad. Love and best wishes to you and your daughter. xx

susiecb Fri 28-Oct-11 10:21:03

I am sorry what a sad time you must be having. Big hug for you and flowersthanks

coastwallker Fri 28-Oct-11 11:28:38

Adding to the pile of hugs

harrigran Fri 28-Oct-11 13:55:31

Big hug MrsM it is very distressing, been there with my DIL thanks

HildaW Fri 28-Oct-11 18:26:02

MrsM, so very sorry, hug to you and your lovely daughter, such a sadness for her and all your family.

riclorian Fri 28-Oct-11 18:57:14

I am so sorry Mrs M - life can be so cruel . There is nothing I can say to make it better for you all . All I can say is take care of each other , life will get better . Hugs to you both x