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janeainsworth Mon 01-Jul-13 21:03:25

It may not have been patronising, but it would have been common courtesy to tell us under what auspices the 'research' was being carried out and whether the post was authorised by GNHQ.
As others have pointed out, the majority of GNers are too young to have experienced depression during the war years, but in any case I would not disclose information about my own medical history or hat of my relatives in a public forum.

mollie Mon 01-Jul-13 20:58:30

I didn't think so. Some have tried to answer so not everyone thought so. She asked politely. Probably unaware of the etiquette, probably young, but now told in no uncertain terms.

merlotgran Mon 01-Jul-13 20:58:21

Beginning a post with, 'I hope you can please help' is a polite request surely? confused

Butty Mon 01-Jul-13 20:55:11

Quite, Mollie. A bit of kindness wouldn't have gone amiss, even if it was a poor attempt at advertising, which I don't think it is.
Maybe Brandy might like to clarify.

Agreed J - didn't find Brandy's post patronising at all.

absent Mon 01-Jul-13 20:53:11

mollie I don't like being patronised and I don't think anyone was rude. Expecting members to provide information for your research, on the other hand, is a rude assumption.

merlotgran Mon 01-Jul-13 20:52:48

Nella Last wrote for the Mass Observation archives. She suffered from depression.

www.bbc.co.uk/history/british/britain_wwtwo/nella_last_01.shtml

mollie Mon 01-Jul-13 20:49:08

But why be so rude about it? Why not ignore the thread?

Greatnan Mon 01-Jul-13 20:47:16

I hope not.

mollie Mon 01-Jul-13 20:45:58

Ouch! Brandy won't make that mistake again will she/he?

j08 Mon 01-Jul-13 20:44:45

They may have had electric shock treatment. Of a very rough and ready kind.

j08 Mon 01-Jul-13 20:43:03

I don't think there would have been much real help. At worse severely depressed people would have been locked up in large institutions.

I don't know when tricyclics were invented. You could find out on the net.

Phenolbarbitone was the standard drug for insomnia.

absent Mon 01-Jul-13 20:41:42

Wasn't the Blitz during the 1940s not an alternative? Wouldn't cocoa have been rationed in the same way as chocolate? Surely the common expression is tea and sympathy not cocoa and Vera Lynn.

merlotgran Mon 01-Jul-13 20:39:20

Brandy There are quite a few books that cover the subject of depression during the Blitz. 'Domestic Soldiers' by Jennifer Purcell is a good one.

j08 Mon 01-Jul-13 20:39:16

That Wasn't patronising. confused

Greatnan Mon 01-Jul-13 20:37:36

I think the patronising reference to cocoa and Vera Lynn tells us all we need to know about this poster.

absent Mon 01-Jul-13 20:35:41

Along with many other gransnetters, I am a post-war baby boomer. In any case, shouldn't this be on the paid Media thread? This is a social forum not the rat house in a laboratory.

annodomini Mon 01-Jul-13 20:31:31

I was born in the war and was only 4 and a half when it ended. And I'm older than a lot of most other gransnetters!

Greatnan Mon 01-Jul-13 20:28:28

How old do you think we would have to be to have been depressed during the blitz?
I am getting a bit tired of 'researchers' thinking we are a ready-made source of information.

Brandy Mon 01-Jul-13 20:21:33

Hi all,

I hope you can please help, I am doing some research on Depression and how people coped in years past.

For example, What happened to people who were depressed in the 1940s or during the Blitz? Were they given counselling or medication or cocoa and Vera Lynn songs? What worked for them? How did they manage to survive??

Any thoughts, opinions and help would be gratefully received.

Thank you