Death of a partner

Oh Grannygrunt, I am so sorry you have lost your dh.
I so understand how you are feeling at the minute as my dh died on16.04.2013. Like your husband it was sudden, went in hospital with what wethought was a chest infection only to be told 4 days later on his birthday that he had weeks to live, he died 4 days later.
at the moment you must be feeling in a parallel world, so much to organise, so many kind wishes and people to love you. I don't think it really hit me until after the funeral, as I would imagine Mike would suddenly reappear and this would have just been a nightmare.
please feel free to pm me and we canchat, I must say that the lovely ladies on gn gave me such support in those first few weeks and months. I have done the 'firsts', in fact today is thd 2nd birthday I have had since his death, just expect life to be different, take enjoyment from your family, cry, laugh, grieve and celebrate as the will takes you. You never get over it, how could you? You just learn to live this different life.
I send you my very best, remember pm me anytime. [Flowers]

I feel your sadness Granny .Week-ends must be especially hard.

Oh I do hope ( I know) one of the gransneters can help you through this terrible time. Your love for your husband shines through this post. He sounds as though he was a lovely man. I can hardly imagine your pain and wish I could help. You've been through such a lot and have been so brave. I hope you keep posting. My condolences and a (((((((hug))))))) I will be thinking of you.

Granny are you a new poster?

There are sooo many lovely, sweet kindhearted folk on this site who have been through what you have and will offer lots of love and sympathy.

Keep posting, it is very helpful!

Oh grannygrunt my heart goes put to you; it must be such a dreadful time. I can only send you love and a shoulder to lean on, but there are other grants who will be with you very soon, and who will know just how you are feeling. (hug)