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What can I get for Mr P's birthday?

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NanKate Fri 14-Nov-14 09:50:28

My son has bought his Dad the latest Status Quo album for Xmas and says it's excellent and I have bought him the new Annie Lennox album. Do you think your DH would like either of these?

Anne58 Fri 14-Nov-14 08:40:23

Thanks all, I think I will end up asking him, and I know that he'll say he doesn't want anything!

Nfk gin is the one thing that he really can't stand! He enjoys a vodka and tonic, or white rum, Bacardi type stuff.

NfkDumpling Fri 14-Nov-14 07:40:43

If he likes a tipple that tastes good with lemons, may I suggest Adnams gin? Their First Rate (48%) is smooth and lovely. Copper House (40%) is quite nice too. Not that I have that much experience of tipples you understand, but I've just been bought some for my birthday.

rubylady Fri 14-Nov-14 00:07:27

Has he had the Made in Heaven cd of Queen. I had never heard of it but got it last year as a big fan and it is lovely. Take a look on Amazon and read some reviews.

I also bought my son a Freddie Mercury, Queen signed mounted photo display . . . featuring a printed autograph. I bought this one and David Bowie and they are fantastic, again from Amazon. It is currently out of stock but you could keep an eye on stock for other occasions as it really is great and I will buy myself one when stocks are back in.

Whatever you decide, I hope your husband has a wonderful birthday, whatever his age. X

merlotgran Thu 13-Nov-14 22:39:23

DH's birthday is in early January so it's difficult to know what to get him as by that time everyone is sick to death punch drunk where presents are concerned.

DD1 has the right idea though. She buys him tickets to a concert at the Corn Exchange in Cambridge for a date in the Spring when it's so much nicer to go out. I'm on a winner because I get to go as his carer grin

durhamjen Thu 13-Nov-14 22:27:09

Interesting. What happens when he reaches pension age?
The DWP will be glad to save a year's pension.

Charleygirl Thu 13-Nov-14 21:16:00

I agree with Starling and maybe ask him if he wants the latest Queen Forever. Better to give him something that he wants than waste money.

Starling Thu 13-Nov-14 21:11:29

Ask him what he wants?

pompa Thu 13-Nov-14 20:59:26

How about a fire extinguisher ?

Hip Flask
Crystal spirit glass
Vintage port

Ana Thu 13-Nov-14 20:18:02

But...didn't Mr P know what year he was born? I don't understand at all. Why would you have to ask his mother?

Anyway....no idea about a present. Men can be so difficult!

Elegran Thu 13-Nov-14 20:11:02

Phoenix you may be able to settle his DOB once and for all on this search page. www.freebmd.org.uk/search

You could be one up on the rest of the family (and know whether it is time to buy him a 60 Watt lightbulb)

suzied Thu 13-Nov-14 20:05:49

Yes a weekend or overnight away is always good.then you get to share the present as well

Anne58 Thu 13-Nov-14 20:02:01

Oh Ana , typical Phoenix complications!

We had the chance to go on holiday, all paid for my my (then) boss. Himself's passport was out of date. sent it off with a rather moth eaten birth certificate, which was rejected. Time running out, tried to get another birth cert. All seemingly relevant register offices drew a blank.Mr P's mother was alive at the time, although not always totally on the ball! Phone call ensued:
Me: Hello Rose, when you registered Mr P's birth, did he have another name, or a middle name?
Her: No, just
Me: What was his date of birth?
Her: 17th November

Now, I was particularly pleased at this stage as I felt that I had caught her on a good day!
Me;OK, so what year?
Her: Oh, now you're asking!

The new birth cert was sent straight to the passport office, and luckily we were able to go on holiday, but there is still much discussion within the family as to whether he was born in 1954 or 1955 confused

Ana Thu 13-Nov-14 19:41:31

You mean he can't remember what year he was born and has no documentation to prove his date of birth? confused

Anne58 Thu 13-Nov-14 19:37:38

Which is on Monday! I was toying with "Queen Forever" he's a big fan, but the reviews aren't good, and he's already got everything else that they have ever recorded. He will still be here first thing on the day, so I can give him his card, but leaving the house at silly O'clock to travel to work in Hampshire.

I suppose I could get him a bottle of his favourite spirit tomorrow, plus mixer and lemon, and let him have it as an early present, but it doesn't seem particularly thoughtful, although if I can't come up with anything else it might have to do confused

It doesn't help that we aren't entirely sure if he's going to be 59 or 60 confused