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HildaW Tue 06-Jan-15 20:49:49

Must admit the idea of inviting the whole class to my child's or grandchild's party is beyond me. I come from the old school where you invited half a dozen of your closest pals and that was it. It was just a fact of life that some children were your close friends and some were not. Its not a bad lesson in life - you cant expect everyone to like you.
However, if just one child out of a whole class was excluded that would seem a tad perverse. But how on earth does one cater for over 20 four year olds?

Maggiemaybe Tue 06-Jan-15 20:48:09

I'd be furious, Grandelly54. What a mean thing to do to a 4 year old. I'm trying to believe that it might have been a misunderstanding and that your grandson will get his invitation tomorrow. I certainly hope so.

Mishap Tue 06-Jan-15 20:44:41

Oh - poor wee lass. Give her a big hug.

rosesarered Tue 06-Jan-15 20:43:22

No, I agree Grandelly, it's pretty awful to do that in front of a little one.When they are much older, they have to accept that they won't be invited to everyone's parties, but tiny tots can't understand that. The mother should have sent the invites another way if she only wanted a few classmates to attend.

Grandelly54 Tue 06-Jan-15 20:39:34

How is it that you can be standing in the school playground with your grandchild and talking to parents when along comes a mum who starts to hand out party invitations to all and sundry, but leaves your grandchild (who is only four) out? Is there something wrong with the world-I would not dream of leaving any kiddie in the class out from a party invitation. Cannot understand how these adults can look at a little one and decide that they don't like them, after all it really isn't their party, it is their child's 4th birthday party? Please let me know your thoughts on this. I might of course be a wee bit biased towards my grandson.............