That is very interesting Hilda, thank you. Her will leaves everything to my stepdad then to my brother and I, if he dies before her. My step dad has also made a will leaving evening to my brother and I.
So, if she dies first the money undoubtedly could be used for him.
Co-incidently I was speaking to my very wealthy brother today to update him. Don't know why, as he has zero interest in either of them or me. He got quite sniffy about using the money for him at first. Said "the council should look after him!!!!" My mum was married to my dad for 30 years. She has been married to my step dad for 40. He took amazing care of her .
When I suggested that he could take over dealing with the social services, selling the house and sorting everything out he back pedalled very quickly.
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